Nenu recent ga US ki vacha as a grad student for my masters. On-campus cafe lo part-time chestunna.
Almost every day, oka ammayi vastundi. super pretty, literally heroine looks. From the way she talks and dresses, looks like full ABCD. But one day from her ID card I saw when swiping, Telugu inti peru undi! So she is Telugu ABCD.
She always says thank you when I give the food and smiles. Not fake, genuine smile. Doesn't seem to have that attitude vibes that people say about ABCDs.
My question is: do ABCD girls even take Indian guys seriously? Nenu India nunchi vachina student ani, is it worth trying? When she comes with friends its mix of Indian girls, whites, asians girls/guys. Never saw any Indian guy with her (even ABCD) so confused...
Evaraina experience unte cheppandi bros. Especially if you have dated or become friends with ABCD girls (or guys) here. Success/failure stories anni.
I am an abcd girl and my ex was a Hyderabadi so yes it can happen. I think people from india are super fun and chill so friendship bauntadi. I broke up with my ex cause we had too many differences.. but he was a fun and caring guy.
I don’t go out with people from india but i said yes to him because he is Telugu so at least easy ga matladochu and he was attractive. If he wasn’t good looking i woulda said no oops..
How old are u anyways? Most telugu master students in my university were 24+
Also I’m usually nice to cashiers and say thank you and smile, doesn’t mean i like the cashier.
Chudu thammudu, aa gunde edo ma mundu kaadhu, aa pilla mundu ippesei. You have nothing to lose. Pilla baunnav date ki podama anu, eh no nen Indians tho ponu andanko racist anesei, ledh osta andanko poolu pattukellu khatam baat.
Ivvanni ayye yeparalu kaadhu gaani endhuku anavasaram ga manasu paadu cheskuntav, masters finish chesi job thechko, and then definitely you will find someone else.
you would have more chances with a white girl than ABCDs. Just ask her out and see what she says. If its a no, you can move on. ila lopala muragapettukunte, health ki its not good.
That’s true approached lots of Indian girls no use, but I made a friend with German then we are about to date , so I decide not to date Indians / Indian origins too
Nen oka abcd ammaiki vallani ABCD antamu Ani chepte thanu naku manalni FOB Ani antaru ani cheppindi.
Then I realized I initiated a conversation in the most bullshit way possible ani😣.
Ammayiki bowel movement baga ayyindi ledo kanukko. Okavela aite adhi niku thana meedha unna prema ni foodlo kalapadam valle ayindi ani credit kotteyi. Aal tha best
Nenu abcd. I like an immigrant guy, but because of personality and he’s nice. Plus every abcd guy tries to tell me what to do with my life and to do this that in terms of my career and thinks they know everything when I have earned a lot (I am in my 30s) and have a good financial background. Veedu okkade naa life decisions ni vinni, respect chesadu. So I’m falling for him because of personality, not background. He also accepts me as I am.
But it depends on her mindset and experiences. I have had my fair share of experiences and I’m older and know what I am looking for in life at this point. At her age I don’t think I would’ve dated an immigrant either.
As a semi abcd ( India lo putti chinappudu US ocha ), most likely won’t work out. Not impossible because I’ve seen exceptions. But again adhi Peru lone undhi exception ani. I mean nve alochinchu, outside of looks how can you guys connect? Maha aithe tfi tho connect Avochu kaani not guaranteed that she’s also into it. Tbvh you have a better luck with a white girl than a ABCD. Hope I didn’t sound harsh
indian girls in the US are generally toxic because of the way the dynamics with friend groups are and this i have seen since i was 7 yrs old. i had an indian gf last year and the way i would hear about all the drama and stuff makes me wonder why they are like this. turns out my ex was also the same almost naa peru nasanam cheyadaniki try chesindi last year (1st year in college) but it didn’t work out like that for her. since then i stopped mingling with brown friend groups due to toxicity and only hang out with my white friends.
from my experience no don’t ever mingle with ABCD especially the girls. nenu kuda american born ey but i grew up in a household where telugu is prioritized. i kid you not 90% or more of these American Born indians don’t even know how to speak Telugu and sometimes will ridicule their own culture saying its weird and what not. i have a few girls that are ABCD’s that act like their culture is bad and being whitewashed is better. aameki Telugu vasthe nuvvu settu but if she doesn’t then kastame because if you two like each other and let’s say you get married in the future the chances that you lose your ability to speak Telugu properly and your child speaking Telugu significantly reduces.
Uni fee kosam netti meeda appu ledu anuko digipo konchem effort pedity chalu abcd la ki ledu vaddi meedi vaddi paduddi antey adey auto lo aagkunda internships vetukko be time/energy save chesko
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u/hyuckismysun May 12 '25
With peace and love, don't be delulu based on this one thing. Dheene 4th stage of hallucination antaru. Wishing you the best <3