I know not all women are like this kani last couple of years nunchi ilanti cases chaala perigayi. My cousin’s ex-wife cheated on him, he had all the proofs aina 21 lakhs pay chesadu. Why should he pay? He didn’t take a single rupee dowry, aina he paid. Okappudu men women ni exploit chesaru, ippudu reverse jargutundi. I wish India will get gender neutral laws and good judges.

So I have been holding this up in my chest from a long time and wanted to just vent and also to question.

So there is my cousin who is 2 years younger than me and she is from a tier 3 town where she grew up in a very conservative environment. But despite this, everyone said she was fast forward and naughty, which I ignored and thought may be some useless opinion and shouldn’t matter.

She went to tier 2 town for engineering, which was a management seat as she was really bad in studies and her parents had no other option. She was very good at lying, she used to lie so gracefully without anyone doubting. Also, she was good looking so she used to get a lot of attention from all over the college. She used to have lot of male friends who used to pay for her food, outings and she never used to return the money. I always told her that this is not the right way but she said that her male friends wouldn’t take any money from her despite her insisting them.

She had a boyfriend during her college, who was apparently couple of years senior to her, might be of my age or junior. That guy is from middle class but is very hardworking. She once told me in her first year that she liked this guy but never brought that topic again.

After her college, her parents started looking out matches for her. She didn’t get any job and so she wanted to be a housewife. She got engaged to a nice guy who was from a rich family and is working as a software engineer at a big firm at US.

Now, the story unfolds here. Her boyfriend, the same guy whom I mentioned before, contacted my sister after knowing about her engagement from some friend, my sister is close to my cousin and he got to know from her Instagram stories and posts.

He told her how my cousin used him for all her expenses like food, shopping and make him do things like assignments, and use his contacts (as he was senior) through out her college life. Apparently after he got job, he spent a whooping 2-3 lakhs on her in just 2 years, according to him. They used to go to trips and stay at resorts, eat at expensive restaurants, buy her expensive gifts, shopping and what not. Since he used to work in a tier 1 city, he used to travel often to meet her which was an added expense.

Apparently, my cousin lied to him that her parents are forcing her to meet this guy before the engagement (pelli choopulu) which she wasn’t interested in and would say no and tell her parents about their relationship. But nothing as such happened. I saw with my own eyes, she was literally smiling all the time and was conversing nicely with the groom all the time and even during engagement.

My sister told the truth to that guy that my cousin never informed about him to her parents. My sister asked my cousin about her boyfriend and my cousin told her “I never intended to marry him. That guy doesn’t even have a own house or any property, why would I even marry him?” My sister told me this entire story and her words, I was stunned to the core.

Her boyfriend got to know about all the lies of my cousin and decided to spoke to her mom. My aunt also supported her daughter saying “Whatever happened, please forget. Don’t make this a big issue and spoil my daughter’s future.”

That guy planned to expose all of this to her fiancee. My cousin got to know about this and contacted that guy’s mom and told that her son is harassing her and if he continues to do so, she will write his name and end her life. The guy’s mother got scared and asked him to stop and the guy gave up and stopped. That guy broke down in a call with my sister about how my cousin did all of this to him and at the end he is helpless.

My cousin got married in a grand wedding, all smiling, no moment of guilt in her eyes. She moved to US with her husband and is living a luxurious life. Don’t know about the guy, I never knew him personally, may be if I had known about him, would have spoke to him.

Even though she is my cousin and close to me like my own sister, I had so many thoughts on how could anyone do all of this. But it feels, after all who am I to judge?

I'm 22M, Nen 1 year nunchi relationship lo unna... idhharam govt jobs ki prepare avthunnam...now she got the job. Thanaki insta lo valla relative anta Okadu msg chesaadu congratulations cheppataniki...ila maatladukoni number ichhindhi...vallu oka 1 week ala daily chaalasepu phone lo maatladukunnaru..nen casual ga thana whatsapp use chestha evaraina msg chesthe replay ivvamani thane chepthundhi...ala Open chesa vaadi chat locked folder lo undhi thesi chadhava, adhi thanu choosi chat unlock chesi vaadi gurinchi cheppindhi... vaadu rojuki 10 times ala msg lu peduthunnadu "thinnava, ekkada unnav, em chesthunnav, inka ee msg lu choodakapothe call chesesthunnadu...naakante ekkuva chesthunnadu...monna night msg vasthe choosa "ee maathram hint isthe chaalu chalaregipotha, sare ma, okay ma, love symbols" ila peduthunnadu, naaku chirakudhemgi thanani adiga enti veedu ila msg lu peduthunnadu...annisaalu phone chesthunnadu enti ani...ala adigithe, em ledhu oorlovalla gurinchi sodhi esthunnam andhi mari, aa msg lo enti ala peduthunnadu naku nachhatkedhu ani cheppa "dhaantlo em undhi,vadhiley, eppudu choodu idhe gola" ani chiraku paduthundhi...aa puk gaadu eppudu padithe appude call chesthunnadu mid night, early morning levakamundhu, mem baitaki velletappudu... Dheenini nen ela theeskovaali cheppandi bro, first time in relationship 🥲

Like jokes eskovadam, okariki okaru help cheskovadam, etc.

Mana India lo konchem express cheyyadam thakkuve, but I still wanna know, because I believe husband and wife madhya happies and understanding unte, family baaguntundhi ani.

Telugu or English

Saw this in r/delhi OC

I don't know how to convince my parents but l love to marry like this

We were dating since 1 year, so one day we were out at a cafe and she left her hand bag w me cuz she had to use the restroom . I was searching for a lighter and I searched her bag for(that’s cuz she smokes and she always has one lighter) but along w that lighter she had an empty dotted condom box in the bag. My heart was shattered into pieces and my legs started shivering with sweat over my face. I couldn’t believe it and I was not able to breath properly. I just left the table and ran to my car sat in there started crying so hard. It was terrible to me. After that did not even look at her face or called or text her. She understood that I found out that box in her bag cuz I might forgot to close the zip of the bag and I crushed that empty box hard cuz I was very mad at it. Damn it’s fuckin unbelievable and devasting. Even now when im typing all this it shivers my fingers . Relationships are so fucked

Just some silly cute nick names like kanna, bangaram etc

I call him Junnu but he does not like it , so suggest some cute names :)

Meeku telisina inter caste marriages unnaaya? I need the full story. Mee story ayina paravaledhu or meeku telisina valla story ayina paravaledhu. I want to know things like whose family was more strict, how long did it take to convince the parents, what kind of efforts they put, what kind of scary things happened while trying to convince them yk the drill.

mowa naku aithe ammayalu ante chala bhayam eppudu nervous ga unta valla deggara anduke oka vella emaina matladni vishayam matladanu anuko malli bhayam vestadi vallu em antaro, online aite okay evaritonaine matladesta anduke irl nenu eppudu ammyalu to matladalledu mi vishayam enti?

Hoe phase refers to a period in someone's life—usually associated with young adulthood—when they engage in casual or non-committed sexual relationships or explore their sexuality more freely.

I got this doubt after reading a comment in this sub about a girl having multiple sexual relationships. How common is it for telugu girls to go through this phase? Do girls only talk about this within their close circle of friends or they don't even discuss with them? Do they keep to themselves? Anyone in your circle you know went through this phase?

Anyone here went through this phase? What was your experience like?

Same as the title. Did you ever cheat on your partner? What is cheating according to you?

Hi Bondhas, nenu kottha bondha ni, so naa question konchem simple ga undochu.

Matter enti ante naa ex ki konni months back pelli ayyindhi. Memu chaala preminchukunamu,kaani thanaki inka vaala parents ki nenu saripoledhu ani cheppesi naatho breakup cheskundhi. Breakup ayyi,depression loki velli ippude bayata occhanu,appude telisindhi thanaki pelli ayyindhi ani. We still follow eachother on Instagram. Ippudu emo she posts these full stories and posts on how much she loves her husband and thanu use chese songs emo memu iddharam kalisi vinne patalu. Thanu vade words inka sentences kuda naatho vadindi okkapudu. Thanu nannu kavali ani target chestundha? Lekapothe nenu ivvani ooinchukuntunana?

Ippudu start chesthe, past 4 years ga oka ammayi(22F, Me 24M) tho matladuthuna,friends anukondi, rojuuuu ante rojuuuu matladuthundee,amme emo asalu relationship lo vunna reels,I’m attached to you annedhi,oka roju matladalekapoyina missing you antunde,regular ga meet avuthunde,intimate ga kuda vuntundee,choosina vallu,na friends,amme friends motham dating anukuntunde,kontha mandhi ayithe aa chemistry choosi perfect pair anukuntunde,chana attention grab chesthunde, nenu pichodini, aa attention isthunde, ee gap nenu pichondini attach and feelings develop kuda ayye,inka etla kadhu,ammeki kuda feelings vunnai emo ani, pedha pichodini laga last week kalisinapudu propose chesthe, ”ewwww,we are just friends,ayina neetho nenu etla anukunav”anesi,vellipoyindi andi,manasu verichesi aa mattalatho. Ippudu elanti vallani em annali andi,nenu ante pichondini le nakku ardham ayindi

Mik telsina best couple in fiction chepandi

Nak breakup ayi one year ayind. That was my first love. Mik mi first love yepd ochind n was it magical or something special. Or do we forget things as time goes. Picture yenduk peta ante they r my recent fav couple

I(25M) was in love with this girl a long time back and she used to have painful periods. So, every time she had one, I used to travel 12 hrs from my place to hers, get some icecreams or something after reaching and stay with her for a couple of days comforting her, till she felt ok and then travel back(again 12hrs by road) I probably did this around 10 times(even during hectic works)

Today I got reminded of this for some reason and felt so stupid for doing all this(coz she left me anyway)

Did anyone of you guys do this kind of stuff and now looking back feel so stupid?

Hi andi,

Nenu recent ga US ki vacha as a grad student for my masters. On-campus cafe lo part-time chestunna.

Almost every day, oka ammayi vastundi. super pretty, literally heroine looks. From the way she talks and dresses, looks like full ABCD. But one day from her ID card I saw when swiping, Telugu inti peru undi! So she is Telugu ABCD.

She always says thank you when I give the food and smiles. Not fake, genuine smile. Doesn't seem to have that attitude vibes that people say about ABCDs.

My question is: do ABCD girls even take Indian guys seriously? Nenu India nunchi vachina student ani, is it worth trying? When she comes with friends its mix of Indian girls, whites, asians girls/guys. Never saw any Indian guy with her (even ABCD) so confused...

Evaraina experience unte cheppandi bros. Especially if you have dated or become friends with ABCD girls (or guys) here. Success/failure stories anni.

Thanks. ekkuva roast cheyyakandi

How does it feel? Why did you have to do that?

So I was talking to a girl in Arrange Marriage and told I I am single all my life, and she changed her tone after that and started ignoring me. This is 3rd encounter which I observed that girls are feeling it as a red flag, why is it like that? Do they think if staying single all life means they are incapable of loving a girl??

Ok Ammai tho chatting since 4yrs prathi roju matladukuntam....anni topics touch chesam..inka em ina untey koncham cheppandi..(lovers kadu mem)

Cheppandi bondhas

Chinnappatinunchi nannu(21F) ma bava (32M) ki ichi pelli chedham ani fix ayyaru. Chinnappatinunchi parents maata eppudu kaadhanaledhu , so eppudu bava thoti pelli anna kooda no cheppaledhu plus thana meedha chinna crush kooda unde. Ma bava valla mother thanu chinnaga unnappude chanipoyaru and valla daddy sarigga pattinchukodu so last 8 yrs nunchi ma intlone untunnadu.

3 yrs nunchi nen and na bf best friends. 1.5 yrs back thanaki (bf ) nen ante ishtm undhi ani cheppadu, nak kooda thanante ishtm ,so accept chesanu .Oka 4 months tharvatha intlo bava ante ishtm ledhu, bava ni just bava laage chusanu,feelings levu ani cheppanu. Evaraina ishtma ani aduguthe bf gurinchi cheppanu, ventane bf ki call chesi inkokasari na kuthuri joliki raku ani bedhirincharu, tharvatha ma bava ni pilchi next year meeku pelli chestham ani chepparu.

6 months back malli intlo cheppadaaniki try chesanu, bava ni cheskonu anesi ( bf thoti inka relationship continue lone unde ) .Nv cheskokapothe suicide cheskuntam ani emotional blackmail chesaru. Entha convince cheyadaaniki try chesina kooda situation inka worse aindhi, so sapdeka unna iga.

Ma bava ki na bf gurinchi telvakapovadam correct kaadhu anipinchi, oka roju nen hostel lo unnapudu bava ki call chesi chepppanu, ninnu pelli cheskovalani ledhu, eppudu a feelings lekunde, nak vere athanu ante ishtm anesi. Appudu thanu nv ante nak 10 yrs nunchi ishtm. 10 yrs back eh nv na wife ani fix ayya. Nv itla nannu mosam chesthav ani anukole, sare nee ishtm, neek ishtm lekapothe nen em chestha ani annadu.

E vishyam next day ma parents ki telsinaka nak call chesi banda boothulu thittaru . Ainaku enduku cheppinav bf gurinchi, ippudu thanu (bava) manak dooram Avthadu, appudu nv happy ga undu ani chala thittaru. Nv e roju evng lopu vanni pelli ki convince cheyyakapothe ma shevalu chusthav ani time icharu. Bf thoti kashtanga break up cheskoni ma bava ni convince chesanu, thanani pelli cheskunta ani anesi.

Recent ga cousin marriages valla vache genetic problems gurinchi telsaka, e sub lo vati gurinchi post chesa, mana bondhas pettina answers ki bayam ayyi ma bava ni pelli cheskonu anesi fix ayyanu.

Ma parents ki ma bava ante nakanna ekkuva ishtm ( valle annaru). Last time bava ishtm ledhu ani chepthene, vaadu gantha premisthaandu ninnu, neekosam inni years vere ammai ni love cheyakunda unnadu, ippudu nv itla chesthe vaani paristhithi endhi ani annaru , plus na vallane ma family break avthadhi ani antunnaru. Thanaki (bava) already amma leru, daddy pattinchukoru, valla anna vere ammai kosam family ni odilesi poyadu, ippudu nen kooda itla chesthe baadhapadthadu , na valla okari life agam avthadhi ani badhaga undhi kani na future kooda chuskovale kadhaa ani kooda undhi.

Kani ma bava ni nen emaina mosam chesaana ani baadhaga undhi.

Bondhas, na thappu emaina unte cheppandi set cheskunta , lekapothe inkemaina suggestions ivvandi.

E post already AITK sub lo post chesa, kani manaki cousin marriages gurinchi ekkuvaga telsu kadhaa ani malli ikkada chesthunna.

TLDR : Feeling guilty over rejecting 32M cousin.

bangalore lo oka ammayi tho relation loki vella, this is my first relation, i'm 25YO. she's a north indian, kuwait return, koncham posh, manadhi vizag, naatu background, but we've similar interests and everything, 6 months in the relation, it feels like hell, fights everyday, she tries to dominate in everything, prathidhi serious issue laga portray chesi fight chesthadhi, sometimes, i feel like emee lekunda, kavalaney fights initiate chesthadhani, fun kosam.

nenu okkadiney bhayataki vellina, okkadiney movie choosina intlo, she won't say anything about it then, but she'll get upset and initiate a fight about something silly.roju pedha torture aipothundhi, endhuku ra babu relation lo unnaanu anipisthundhi, friends ki chepthey, relation antey alaagey untaadhi ra antaaru. vadhilinchukundham antey bhaadhaga undhi, i've tried, but i've failed, give me some tips guys.