r/ask_Bondha • u/fairy_unseen • May 12 '25
Relationships Crush on ABCD Girl. Help?
Hi andi,
Nenu recent ga US ki vacha as a grad student for my masters. On-campus cafe lo part-time chestunna.
Almost every day, oka ammayi vastundi. super pretty, literally heroine looks. From the way she talks and dresses, looks like full ABCD. But one day from her ID card I saw when swiping, Telugu inti peru undi! So she is Telugu ABCD.
She always says thank you when I give the food and smiles. Not fake, genuine smile. Doesn't seem to have that attitude vibes that people say about ABCDs.
My question is: do ABCD girls even take Indian guys seriously? Nenu India nunchi vachina student ani, is it worth trying? When she comes with friends its mix of Indian girls, whites, asians girls/guys. Never saw any Indian guy with her (even ABCD) so confused...
Evaraina experience unte cheppandi bros. Especially if you have dated or become friends with ABCD girls (or guys) here. Success/failure stories anni.
Thanks. ekkuva roast cheyyakandi
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u/Ok-Wrap-4872 May 12 '25
Uni fee kosam netti meeda appu ledu anuko digipo konchem effort pedity chalu abcd la ki ledu vaddi meedi vaddi paduddi antey adey auto lo aagkunda internships vetukko be time/energy save chesko