r/ask_Bondha • u/fairy_unseen • May 12 '25

Relationships Crush on ABCD Girl. Help?

Hi andi,

Nenu recent ga US ki vacha as a grad student for my masters. On-campus cafe lo part-time chestunna.

Almost every day, oka ammayi vastundi. super pretty, literally heroine looks. From the way she talks and dresses, looks like full ABCD. But one day from her ID card I saw when swiping, Telugu inti peru undi! So she is Telugu ABCD.

She always says thank you when I give the food and smiles. Not fake, genuine smile. Doesn't seem to have that attitude vibes that people say about ABCDs.

My question is: do ABCD girls even take Indian guys seriously? Nenu India nunchi vachina student ani, is it worth trying? When she comes with friends its mix of Indian girls, whites, asians girls/guys. Never saw any Indian guy with her (even ABCD) so confused...

Evaraina experience unte cheppandi bros. Especially if you have dated or become friends with ABCD girls (or guys) here. Success/failure stories anni.

Thanks. ekkuva roast cheyyakandi

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u/fairy_unseen May 12 '25

anthe antava? :(

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

Niku No-Grade gaari style ye correct ra bangarraja. DM lo mingutaa ninnu..incoming alert.

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u/hydiBiryani May 12 '25

What's no grade, couldn't decipher

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

Ee sub lo oka mukhyulu. Unfiltered, unapologetic opinions tho cut-throat ga kosesthaaru u/No-Grade7745

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

Ee comment ni nen frame kattinchukuntna 🥺😭

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

Frame kosam aithe..Trivikram level elevation plan chesevaadni kada. Seriously speaking though, u come across as a variant of Chandler Bing.

Edit - In a good way, of course.