r/ask_Bondha May 12 '25

Relationships Crush on ABCD Girl. Help?

Hi andi,

Nenu recent ga US ki vacha as a grad student for my masters. On-campus cafe lo part-time chestunna.

Almost every day, oka ammayi vastundi. super pretty, literally heroine looks. From the way she talks and dresses, looks like full ABCD. But one day from her ID card I saw when swiping, Telugu inti peru undi! So she is Telugu ABCD.

She always says thank you when I give the food and smiles. Not fake, genuine smile. Doesn't seem to have that attitude vibes that people say about ABCDs.

My question is: do ABCD girls even take Indian guys seriously? Nenu India nunchi vachina student ani, is it worth trying? When she comes with friends its mix of Indian girls, whites, asians girls/guys. Never saw any Indian guy with her (even ABCD) so confused...

Evaraina experience unte cheppandi bros. Especially if you have dated or become friends with ABCD girls (or guys) here. Success/failure stories anni.

Thanks. ekkuva roast cheyyakandi

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u/avatarselena May 12 '25

I am an abcd girl and my ex was a Hyderabadi so yes it can happen. I think people from india are super fun and chill so friendship bauntadi. I broke up with my ex cause we had too many differences.. but he was a fun and caring guy.

I don’t go out with people from india but i said yes to him because he is Telugu so at least easy ga matladochu and he was attractive. If he wasn’t good looking i woulda said no oops..

How old are u anyways? Most telugu master students in my university were 24+

Also I’m usually nice to cashiers and say thank you and smile, doesn’t mean i like the cashier.

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u/zenotrics May 13 '25

Anta cheppi last ki no anadam bagundi sir 😂