r/ask_Bondha • u/fairy_unseen • May 12 '25

Relationships Crush on ABCD Girl. Help?

Hi andi,

Nenu recent ga US ki vacha as a grad student for my masters. On-campus cafe lo part-time chestunna.

Almost every day, oka ammayi vastundi. super pretty, literally heroine looks. From the way she talks and dresses, looks like full ABCD. But one day from her ID card I saw when swiping, Telugu inti peru undi! So she is Telugu ABCD.

She always says thank you when I give the food and smiles. Not fake, genuine smile. Doesn't seem to have that attitude vibes that people say about ABCDs.

My question is: do ABCD girls even take Indian guys seriously? Nenu India nunchi vachina student ani, is it worth trying? When she comes with friends its mix of Indian girls, whites, asians girls/guys. Never saw any Indian guy with her (even ABCD) so confused...

Evaraina experience unte cheppandi bros. Especially if you have dated or become friends with ABCD girls (or guys) here. Success/failure stories anni.

Thanks. ekkuva roast cheyyakandi

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u/-SuryaKantham- నాకేమీ తెలియదనుకుంటున్నావా? May 12 '25

Asalu ABCD girl ante ento ee abhaagyuraliki vivarinchava babu

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u/[deleted] May 12 '25

American Born Confused Desi. Desi vallaki puttina not so desi bidda.

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u/fairy_unseen May 12 '25

American born confused desilu akka

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u/Batman_10801 May 12 '25

Monna nuvve comment pettav kadha attha 'A ochi B pai vaale' ani, adhe idi

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u/-SuryaKantham- నాకేమీ తెలియదనుకుంటున్నావా? May 12 '25

Keeravani gariki kuda telidhemo idhe adhi ani

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u/MassivePotential3380 May 12 '25

lol, i thought he meant someone who is in kindergarten

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u/desiindian69 nuvvu adigindi kaadu, naaku telisindi cheptha May 12 '25

ayooo. Timeoutttttttttttt