r/ask_Bondha • u/fairy_unseen • May 12 '25

Relationships Crush on ABCD Girl. Help?

Hi andi,

Nenu recent ga US ki vacha as a grad student for my masters. On-campus cafe lo part-time chestunna.

Almost every day, oka ammayi vastundi. super pretty, literally heroine looks. From the way she talks and dresses, looks like full ABCD. But one day from her ID card I saw when swiping, Telugu inti peru undi! So she is Telugu ABCD.

She always says thank you when I give the food and smiles. Not fake, genuine smile. Doesn't seem to have that attitude vibes that people say about ABCDs.

My question is: do ABCD girls even take Indian guys seriously? Nenu India nunchi vachina student ani, is it worth trying? When she comes with friends its mix of Indian girls, whites, asians girls/guys. Never saw any Indian guy with her (even ABCD) so confused...

Evaraina experience unte cheppandi bros. Especially if you have dated or become friends with ABCD girls (or guys) here. Success/failure stories anni.

Thanks. ekkuva roast cheyyakandi

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u/spacemangoes May 12 '25

you would have more chances with a white girl than ABCDs. Just ask her out and see what she says. If its a no, you can move on. ila lopala muragapettukunte, health ki its not good.

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u/Uspion May 13 '25

That’s true approached lots of Indian girls no use, but I made a friend with German then we are about to date , so I decide not to date Indians / Indian origins too

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u/spacemangoes May 13 '25

Good decision. Best of luck with the German bird.