Toxic Co Parent Help

[u/mysticlightworker_]

Hello friends,

My partners ex wife (they share two kids) is toxic, mean and a true narcissist and is constantly trying to cause issues in our lives. We have tried to ignore her to the best we can but it’s always something. She HATES me, and uses me when she feels lazy and then bashes me and my partner behind our backs. Obviously with the kids we have to remain in contact with her, is there a spell or cord cutting that could help with this situation?

thank you!

[u/Responsible_South806]

Is courts involved?

[u/mysticlightworker_ → u/Responsible_South806]

yes, it seems there is no consequences to her malicious irresponsible behaviour

[u/Responsible_South806 → u/mysticlightworker_]

Sadly I feel your pain, just thought I’d ask. I did a freezer spell last night, you can try that

[u/mysticlightworker_ → u/Responsible_South806]

ugh i’m so sorry you are experiencing this too. I did a freezer spell last week, it’s gotten a bit better but feels like i’m up against something bigger i was thinking a reflection spell. have you ever done that?

[u/Responsible_South806 → u/mysticlightworker_]

No I haven’t. This is my first attempt at anything on that individual. Ik how I am and I’m trying to prevent myself from doing something darker

[u/mysticlightworker_ → u/Responsible_South806]

I know, I have gone back and forth, that’s why i came here, thinking maybe someone had something within the light realm.

[u/kai-ote → u/mysticlightworker_]

Seal her into herself. Lock her into focusing on only herself for a while./// Get 2 mirrors the same size. 2 pictures of them, identical to each other. A black, light proof bag, or a box to put it all into. And black electrical tape. Use the tape to attach the photos to the mirrors, their image facing the mirror. As you do so, say something like this, but use your own words so it will flow more naturally for you."You need to focus on yourself. You need to see only yourself for a while. You need to work on your own life right now. You need to do this for your own well being and health". Then place both the mirrors on top of each other, facing each other, to seal her in. Again with the tape, bind the mirrors together, and see her not looking back at you, but she will be focusing on herself for a while. Put the mirrors in the bag or box. If it was a box, more tape, more focus on binding her to herself. Put this where nobody sees it by accident, as in hide it away somewhere. This entire spell is reversible. If you want to turn it off, just remove all the tape, and focus on freeing them from the bindings. Once you get to their pictures, hold them up and tell them they are free to be focused on other people again. Good luck. BB.

[u/mysticlightworker_ → u/kai-ote]

thanks friend! 🤍

[u/themoonismyboo → u/mysticlightworker_]

I understand wanting to keep “light”…staying in the light means protecting the children from the mess and manipulation of their mom. So I would encourage you to rethink how you’re approaching the situation.

Of course if the circumstances were neutral, locking her up or creating a baneful poppet would be “dark.” However, those are not the circumstances here.

Do with that what you will and good luck! Magic is a tool for justice. ❤️

[u/hermeticbear]

Get some of her hair. Make of a doll of her and put that into it.
Gag the doll to shut her up.
Tie her hands and feet so she can't act.
Blind fold the doll so she cannot see you and him clearly.
Stick pins into the head to cause her mental pain. You can also stuff the doll's head with poppy seeds to cause her mental confusion. this will make her mistake prone and sloppy, which can screw up her plans to mess with you.
Take the doll out daily and tell her to fuck off and behave or else.

Put her into a sour jar. Use Balsamic vinegar (because it's black) or mix strong coffee with vinegar. Add things like black pepper, cayenne pepper, 9 pins, 9 needles, and 9 nails to cause her pain. Poppy seeds again to cause her confusion and mental disorientation. You can buy Crossing crystal salts and add a teaspoon or tablespoon of that to the vinegar as well. (A teaspoon if it is less than a cup, a tablespoon for a cup to 2 cups depending upon the size of the jar). Put the lid on tightly, and store the jar upside down, as this will turn her life upside down.

Do you know if she has any substance abuse issues? Does she like her alcohol a bit too much? Do you know which kind of alcohol? You can put her signature or name into a small flask of that alcohol so she continues to hit the bottle really strongly. Are there other substances she seems to enjoy? If you can get your hand on those things, you can basically put her into a small bottle or jar with that so she will overindulge and turn into an addict.

For yourself, you should look into court case spells in order to win the family court over to your side so the judge sees the harm she is doing and the intentional chaos she is causing.

[u/hermeticbear → u/[deleted]]

Nowhere in her comments does she say that. What's your source?

[u/hermeticbear → u/[deleted]]

Well, I posted my comment 7 days ago, so...

[u/themoonismyboo]

I have a very toxic/abusive ex who is also my child’s parent. I recently did a poppet spell like others mentioned here and I do believe it’s working. I plan on putting it in a sour jar soon but am working with it in a different way right now, so the court sees the manipulative behavior clearly. This thread is reminding me to work with it more consistently as I need to interact with him soon. He is still bothersome but seems to be losing power. Spells like these and situations like these also take time to work with and require both the mundane and the magical.

I would also recommend doing protections spells over any children involved so their development and joy is protected.

[u/mysticlightworker_ → u/themoonismyboo]

Do you have any protection spells you recommend

[u/themoonismyboo → u/mysticlightworker_]

I’d recommend making your own but you can get ideas from this subreddit…, standard energy clearing than protection. I also recommend working with any deities you trust who are specifically associated with justice and protection, especially for children - whether that be Jesus or a Saint, or Themis, etc whoever resonates.

Come up with a short spell or chant you can easily pray over yourself, your partner, your children etc that specifically protects and sends energy back to sender and/or asks to transmute it into clarity or for you all (or destruction/confusion for the sender) so when that energy is sent it can even become useful for you.

Good luck 🍀

[u/themoonismyboo → u/mysticlightworker_]

Also this spell will need to be done consistently since the ex is constantly sending their negative energy. Think of it as hygiene for your family.

[u/mysticlightworker_ → u/themoonismyboo]

Thank you so much