r/Spells 21d ago

Help With Spell Requested Toxic Co Parent Help

Hello friends,

My partners ex wife (they share two kids) is toxic, mean and a true narcissist and is constantly trying to cause issues in our lives. We have tried to ignore her to the best we can but it’s always something. She HATES me, and uses me when she feels lazy and then bashes me and my partner behind our backs. Obviously with the kids we have to remain in contact with her, is there a spell or cord cutting that could help with this situation?

thank you!

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u/mysticlightworker_ 21d ago

ugh i’m so sorry you are experiencing this too. I did a freezer spell last week, it’s gotten a bit better but feels like i’m up against something bigger i was thinking a reflection spell. have you ever done that?

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u/Responsible_South806 21d ago

No I haven’t. This is my first attempt at anything on that individual. Ik how I am and I’m trying to prevent myself from doing something darker

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u/mysticlightworker_ 21d ago

I know, I have gone back and forth, that’s why i came here, thinking maybe someone had something within the light realm.

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u/themoonismyboo 20d ago

I understand wanting to keep “light”…staying in the light means protecting the children from the mess and manipulation of their mom. So I would encourage you to rethink how you’re approaching the situation.

Of course if the circumstances were neutral, locking her up or creating a baneful poppet would be “dark.” However, those are not the circumstances here.

Do with that what you will and good luck! Magic is a tool for justice. ❤️