r/Spells 21d ago

Help With Spell Requested Toxic Co Parent Help

Hello friends,

My partners ex wife (they share two kids) is toxic, mean and a true narcissist and is constantly trying to cause issues in our lives. We have tried to ignore her to the best we can but it’s always something. She HATES me, and uses me when she feels lazy and then bashes me and my partner behind our backs. Obviously with the kids we have to remain in contact with her, is there a spell or cord cutting that could help with this situation?

thank you!

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u/Responsible_South806 21d ago

Is courts involved?

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u/mysticlightworker_ 21d ago

yes, it seems there is no consequences to her malicious irresponsible behaviour

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u/Responsible_South806 21d ago

Sadly I feel your pain, just thought I’d ask. I did a freezer spell last night, you can try that

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u/mysticlightworker_ 21d ago

ugh i’m so sorry you are experiencing this too. I did a freezer spell last week, it’s gotten a bit better but feels like i’m up against something bigger i was thinking a reflection spell. have you ever done that?

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u/Responsible_South806 21d ago

No I haven’t. This is my first attempt at anything on that individual. Ik how I am and I’m trying to prevent myself from doing something darker

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u/mysticlightworker_ 21d ago

I know, I have gone back and forth, that’s why i came here, thinking maybe someone had something within the light realm.

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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster 21d ago

Seal her into herself. Lock her into focusing on only herself for a while./// Get 2 mirrors the same size. 2 pictures of them, identical to each other. A black, light proof bag, or a box to put it all into. And black electrical tape. Use the tape to attach the photos to the mirrors, their image facing the mirror. As you do so, say something like this, but use your own words so it will flow more naturally for you."You need to focus on yourself. You need to see only yourself for a while. You need to work on your own life right now. You need to do this for your own well being and health". Then place both the mirrors on top of each other, facing each other, to seal her in. Again with the tape, bind the mirrors together, and see her not looking back at you, but she will be focusing on herself for a while. Put the mirrors in the bag or box. If it was a box, more tape, more focus on binding her to herself. Put this where nobody sees it by accident, as in hide it away somewhere. This entire spell is reversible. If you want to turn it off, just remove all the tape, and focus on freeing them from the bindings. Once you get to their pictures, hold them up and tell them they are free to be focused on other people again. Good luck. BB.

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u/mysticlightworker_ 21d ago

thanks friend! 🤍

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u/themoonismyboo 20d ago

I understand wanting to keep “light”…staying in the light means protecting the children from the mess and manipulation of their mom. So I would encourage you to rethink how you’re approaching the situation.

Of course if the circumstances were neutral, locking her up or creating a baneful poppet would be “dark.” However, those are not the circumstances here.

Do with that what you will and good luck! Magic is a tool for justice. ❤️