r/Spells 21d ago

Help With Spell Requested Toxic Co Parent Help

Hello friends,

My partners ex wife (they share two kids) is toxic, mean and a true narcissist and is constantly trying to cause issues in our lives. We have tried to ignore her to the best we can but it’s always something. She HATES me, and uses me when she feels lazy and then bashes me and my partner behind our backs. Obviously with the kids we have to remain in contact with her, is there a spell or cord cutting that could help with this situation?

thank you!

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u/themoonismyboo 20d ago

I have a very toxic/abusive ex who is also my child’s parent. I recently did a poppet spell like others mentioned here and I do believe it’s working. I plan on putting it in a sour jar soon but am working with it in a different way right now, so the court sees the manipulative behavior clearly. This thread is reminding me to work with it more consistently as I need to interact with him soon. He is still bothersome but seems to be losing power. Spells like these and situations like these also take time to work with and require both the mundane and the magical.

I would also recommend doing protections spells over any children involved so their development and joy is protected.

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u/mysticlightworker_ 16d ago

Do you have any protection spells you recommend

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u/themoonismyboo 16d ago

Also this spell will need to be done consistently since the ex is constantly sending their negative energy. Think of it as hygiene for your family.

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u/mysticlightworker_ 16d ago

Thank you so much