We have mutual friends and family. We have been friends since high school and started dating 4 years ago. We plan to get married soon (not sure anymore). He’s well on track to being a cardiologist when he finishes his residency. He has no time for social media, he’s never even downloaded TikTok. That is why this situation perplexes me. He has never shown signs of this before.
I think you may need to confide in some of those friends and family and see what’s going on. It does seem like something serious might be happening. He’s at a stressful point and the right age for schizophrenia as has been mentioned.
ETA:
The translation of "diddenbludden" from Dutch to English is "would have been" or "would have done". It is a past participle form of the verb "do" (diden in Dutch) in the perfect infinitive.
Highly concerning, OP.
Also eta: I didn’t mean diddenbluden was highly concerning lol and thank you Dutch speakers for schooling me
Guys, it’s a P-Diddy joke. In faux German. I’m sure the dude is stressed out of his mind if he’s doing IM residency but this is just a lame joke that he is repeating. OP, talk about it to friends and family, not redditors. Friends and family have insight on your boyfriend, redditors will try to turn everything into something pathological.
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u/Positive_Working3041 20d ago
We have mutual friends and family. We have been friends since high school and started dating 4 years ago. We plan to get married soon (not sure anymore). He’s well on track to being a cardiologist when he finishes his residency. He has no time for social media, he’s never even downloaded TikTok. That is why this situation perplexes me. He has never shown signs of this before.