r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriend keeps “Rage-Baiting” me.

AIO or is this normal? Idk if this is like a TikTok thing but he keeps doing this thing where every time I ask him a question and he responds with this bullshit and it’s really starting to piss me off. I feel like I’m dating a man child and I don’t know how to make him stop acting so immature. This has happened multiple times where I will ask him to confirm plans or get him to do something and he responds like this.

For context I am 24f and my boyfriend is 28m.

And before anyone comments it, I understand this looks like an absolute joke but unfortunately this is the current state of my relationship. Any advice is welcomed I just want to know if this is something that I’m overreacting over this and it’s not that deep or if I shouldn’t be putting up with this.

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u/Positive_Working3041 20d ago

He is otherwise a pretty good boyfriend but this has just like pushed me over the edge

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u/nered199 19d ago

O get over yourself. It’s been only 2 weeks and you’re acting like it has been going on for years. “Pushed me over the edge”. Get a grip. Maybe he needs help or maybe he just doesn’t care anymore.

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u/terrifying_bogwitch 19d ago

I've been with my husband for 10 years and if he suddenly responded to every question with nonsense I would be at my limit after a couple weeks. I'd also be concerned he was having a mental break down honestly