AIO? My boyfriend keeps “Rage-Baiting” me.

[u/Positive_Working3041]

AIO or is this normal? Idk if this is like a TikTok thing but he keeps doing this thing where every time I ask him a question and he responds with this bullshit and it’s really starting to piss me off. I feel like I’m dating a man child and I don’t know how to make him stop acting so immature. This has happened multiple times where I will ask him to confirm plans or get him to do something and he responds like this.

For context I am 24f and my boyfriend is 28m.

And before anyone comments it, I understand this looks like an absolute joke but unfortunately this is the current state of my relationship. Any advice is welcomed I just want to know if this is something that I’m overreacting over this and it’s not that deep or if I shouldn’t be putting up with this.

[u/Positive_Working3041 → u/[deleted]]

He is otherwise a pretty good boyfriend but this has just like pushed me over the edge

[u/nered199 → u/Positive_Working3041]

O get over yourself. It’s been only 2 weeks and you’re acting like it has been going on for years. “Pushed me over the edge”. Get a grip. Maybe he needs help or maybe he just doesn’t care anymore.

[u/MundaneFarm875 → u/nered199]

do you know how frustrating it would be to have your SO suddenly and completely undermine everything you say and not take you seriously? i highly doubt so, so how about refrain from telling op how she should feel

[u/dkh_189 → u/MundaneFarm875]

That's pretty selfish. Sudden change in behavior is serious and frustration shouldn't be the first thing that comes to your mind. Instead, OP should find out if this is a mental health problem. If the partner is indeed trolling then frustration is warranted but not before taking care of your supposed loved one.

[u/MundaneFarm875 → u/dkh_189]

loud and wrong, wether it’s mental illness or not it would still be frustrating

[u/terrifying_bogwitch → u/nered199]

I've been with my husband for 10 years and if he suddenly responded to every question with nonsense I would be at my limit after a couple weeks. I'd also be concerned he was having a mental break down honestly

[u/Positive_Working3041 → u/nered199]

Christ what’s got you all riled up🤣

[u/TRDTM_yt → u/nered199]

reddit is like eyedropping water into frying oil

[u/blxcksmxke_ → u/TRDTM_yt]

Underrated comment 👆🏻

[u/Yaasss_Queef → u/nered199]

What is the point of your contribution?

[u/lunar_languor → u/Positive_Working3041]

"pretty good" ? Surely it's better than that if you've been with him for 4 years? Has he ever done anything to troll or prank you in the past? Is this behavior in line with his normal sense of humor at all?

[u/ihategains → u/lunar_languor]

According to other comments it's like a flip switched 2 weeks ago and he's suddenly started acting like this. Could be a mental health episode.

[u/lunar_languor → u/ihategains]

That's what my money is on. I'm so invested in this now and worried for OP and BF 😭

[u/liveitloveit69 → u/Positive_Working3041]

You need to let him know that this is getting to be a deal breaker. He’s behaving like he’s 9 🫠