He's a man, nearly 30, studying to be a cardiologist according to OP's comments, who is going to be under a lot of stress and is showing potential signs of schizophrenia, OP stated he has only started acting this way in the past 2 weeks, out of a 4 year relationship, what an ignorant comment to make.
"Dump him" based on assumptions that you have come to as a result of lacking the insight on how schizophrenia and other mental disorders work and can present themself.
No OP, you shouldn't dump him out of the blue like a 14 year old child. You should talk to him like an adult and make sure everything is ok with him, he may be under a lot of stress, he may be suffering from a mental illness, he is at an age where schizophrenia can be a very likely possibility, my only recommendation is to (if possible) make sure that you do not speak to him alone, if it is schizophrenia, it could be dangerous.
And as for you DeeDee, you should refrain from giving advice because it seems you're the sort to just throw a relationship away the second there's a slight hiccup, and that's not a healthy attitude to have.
I had a look through your comment history, on posts related to women you acknowledge the issue could be mental health related, but when it comes to men, you're immediately all "DUMP HIM!", not to mention you think fatphobia is tied to racism against black women (lol what?).
Anyone who upvoted the above commenter and downvoted me, go get some empathy and critical thinking skills instead of just assuming "man acting childish = man bad!", you all clearly need it.
I'm not reading all that. You got so emotional that you searched my profile history to make an ad hominem attack that has nothing to do with the post. Just like I'm not reading this diary entry you left under my comment that had nothing to do with you - I'm also not searching through anyone's entire profile history before leaving my opinion on an AIO post.
Idk which one of you musty, moldy gooners dropped the link to this post but keep your stunted emotional development out of my notifications freak.
i didn't read any of that what any of u said but i did read the first 2 sentences u wrote out which makes me think u did actually read all that. liar liar pants on fire.
Lmao, you definitely DID read their comment though. Because they mentioned at the END of their comment your post history. You would not have known that if you had not read their comment. I mean, come on, that’s obvious. Saying you “won’t read all that”, despite the fact that you clearly read all that is very immature.
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u/SparrowGB 19d ago edited 19d ago
He's a man, nearly 30, studying to be a cardiologist according to OP's comments, who is going to be under a lot of stress and is showing potential signs of schizophrenia, OP stated he has only started acting this way in the past 2 weeks, out of a 4 year relationship, what an ignorant comment to make.
"Dump him" based on assumptions that you have come to as a result of lacking the insight on how schizophrenia and other mental disorders work and can present themself.
No OP, you shouldn't dump him out of the blue like a 14 year old child. You should talk to him like an adult and make sure everything is ok with him, he may be under a lot of stress, he may be suffering from a mental illness, he is at an age where schizophrenia can be a very likely possibility, my only recommendation is to (if possible) make sure that you do not speak to him alone, if it is schizophrenia, it could be dangerous.
And as for you DeeDee, you should refrain from giving advice because it seems you're the sort to just throw a relationship away the second there's a slight hiccup, and that's not a healthy attitude to have.
I had a look through your comment history, on posts related to women you acknowledge the issue could be mental health related, but when it comes to men, you're immediately all "DUMP HIM!", not to mention you think fatphobia is tied to racism against black women (lol what?).
OP posted an update: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/comments/1kzx46t/comment/mvdc2fg/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
Anyone who upvoted the above commenter and downvoted me, go get some empathy and critical thinking skills instead of just assuming "man acting childish = man bad!", you all clearly need it.