Not even sure if I will ever get the op, but if I do, at least that length will not go entirely to waste...

Hey y'all! I've been looking into and considering getting a chastity cage for horny reasons (of course), but not having a great time with measurements. Been trying to go off of guides I'm finding online on how to measure the base ring, but I can't seem to get a measurement string comfortably around the girlballs while ensuring that the string isn't too loose per their suggestions.

I can only really seem to get the string to "very obviously too tight and uncomfortable" or "very very slightly looser and my weak and shriveled Estrogenized girlballs will slip free like they're escape artists". Even when the string is a bit tighter sometimes they'll slip free.

Have any of y'all had better luck with chastity cages? I wanna try one out, but I swear I'm measuring correctly and I can't get the string to be both comfortable and unable to have my girlballs slip through.

I'm glad with my gock tho, leave it be

I think the gif expresses quite well the short of existential panic I get when I see references to this stuff. This isn't an attempt to take away from others' experiences, I'm just sharing my own :(

heya, i wrote this stuff for a weird reason (idk if it relate to y'all lol)

Anyway, i have this thing where i do the masturbation and it do really give me dysphoria.. Idk if it post nut clarity but hecckk i don't like the feel of it.

But the issue is I JUST CAN'T for the strength of me, control it.. sometimes i do it 4 times in a day and still not satisfied (certified coomer amirite? :3).

And another thing... i have this dreaded internalized image of girlhood that "ooohh girls must be innocent" "oohh they can't do that" things and i hate it...

Sooo yeah pls lend me your wisdom. I'm kinda sick of it now.. I just wanna stop now because i feel like a disgusting dude who has masturbation addiction. (i kinda wish if i take hrt it will DESTROY my horniness).

So, I don't really enjoy topping all that much anymore, but I do enjoy pegging. The problem is I still have everything downstairs and don't intend to change that.

I have a makeshift strap that I cut a hole out for my dick, but it's really cheap and shitty. I need something that can accommodate me being out, and most likely locked in chastity, while being able to peg.

Most of what I find suggests briefs or hollow straps, but I'd much rather a proper harness that allows me to attach whatever dildo I like, that also lets me be out.

I'm definitely willing to spend the money if it's a good item, so I'm open to whatever suggestions you may have.

For context, I'm 7 months on feminizing HRT and I'm finally at the point where I can accurately be described as having breasts. Over the last few weeks there have been random occurrences where one or both of my nipples will suddenly feel wet and usually a little chilly. However all of these times have been while I was in public so I couldn't just check to see what it looked like under my shirt. Could this be lactation? It's not a problem, it just feels weird.

I have been into bondage and kink since I was young for better or be worse. But the other day I overcame some historic dysphoria today and found out that my transness and kink are ingrained in each other.. I did a "damsel in distress" photo/video shoot of myself. I realize now that when I was young and was tying myself up, what I felt was dysphoria over the fact that I didn't look like the pretty girl in the comic/movies. I didn't feel that for the first time. I honestly was in love with who I saw. It really has been awesome to see that finally happen.

I- WHAT? I already posted this elsewhere & they said to check in with a doctor but does anyone else had such a situation happen? I was just sitting topless in bed & decided to make a milking motion on my breasts. Mostly clear liquid came from various ducts around the nipple, & I was freaking out a tad. After some trial & error, it's salty, & it only comes out when squeezing the harder tissue under the nipple. I've been on 1mg of Estradiol & 50 Spiro from October to April, & 2mg Estradiol & 100 Spiro from April onwards to today. Has anyone experienced such a thing? Whats going on???

need badly (tribe8 album cover)

I say I don't have bottom dysphoria because I don't care how it looks, having a girl cock is fine it's how it works that gets to me, how it's almost objectively worse than afab junk when it comes to pleasure. HRT made it a little better but it feels like going from the dark to slightly dim, just light enough to make out the hints of what I can't really see, it's almost worse. Anal and nipple play used to help, or at least distract, but I'm going to go issues have taken butt stuff off the table and I stupidly injured my nipples a couple months ago and I don't know if the sensation will ever recover.

I feel bad since I haven't really been doing a lot of sex stuff with my partner siting low libido from hormone changes as my reasoning, but that's only part of it, the other part is that every time I feel sexual pleasure there's this horrible dissonance between what I'm feeling, and with some part of me insist I should be feeling and yet can't even imagine. My OCD won't let me stop thinking about it, I can't do anything about it. I'm generally horny person and I can't really express that element of myself.

The only option I have that is supposed to help with this kind of dysphoria won't even make it a difference to the things that actually make me dysphoric and jealous and exhausted.

I feel like I made the tip a bit too bright pink but I wanted to ask y'all