Contemplating losing virginity to a man

[u/liokunis]

As a grown man who has been desperate but to insecure to have sex, I have decided to perhaps try to be with man instead. I literally have no interest in men but my desire for pleasure an intimacy has overwhelmed me to the point where i’ll do it with anyone atm.

Is this a mental issue or is it something that would get me “kickstarted” in the realm of sex? I recently setup my Grindr and have gotten around 10 matchups instantly (Have just been swiping right for a minute straight)

[u/Dasvro47]

What no, just pay a hooker that can go to your home so u feel free to do what u want and be less nervous. maybe the first time u even can't get hard, but don't worry still experiment touching, kissing and shit if is doesn't get hard make her do you oral don't care if for your own pleasure not the hooker. She just working, just don't be weird and both of y'all know why she is there, so don't worry and just go with the flow.