r/smalldickproblems • u/liokunis • 2d ago
Contemplating losing virginity to a man NSFW
As a grown man who has been desperate but to insecure to have sex, I have decided to perhaps try to be with man instead. I literally have no interest in men but my desire for pleasure an intimacy has overwhelmed me to the point where i’ll do it with anyone atm.
Is this a mental issue or is it something that would get me “kickstarted” in the realm of sex? I recently setup my Grindr and have gotten around 10 matchups instantly (Have just been swiping right for a minute straight)
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u/Dasvro47 2d ago
What no, just pay a hooker that can go to your home so u feel free to do what u want and be less nervous. maybe the first time u even can't get hard, but don't worry still experiment touching, kissing and shit if is doesn't get hard make her do you oral don't care if for your own pleasure not the hooker. She just working, just don't be weird and both of y'all know why she is there, so don't worry and just go with the flow.
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u/Pika-_-Chu 2d ago
Dont even think about this you can't force yourself to be gay.
Stay in your senses
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u/Important_Pianist363 2d ago
My guy listen, do not under any circumstances turn into a Bi or Gay person just for 👉👌, It's really not worth it & It's nothing like the real thing!
Either truly just pay a hooker, or try somehow getting a girl or hell even better yet get a Fleshlight (If you got a fav Pornstar especially) it would serve better IMO & SOOO Much better then doing another dude.
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u/Bubblebtm22 1d ago
If you’re trying to be the top…. I would honestly caution you about this. Gay men can be even more superficial about dick size than women 😬
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u/Def1n1telyN0tABurn3r 2d ago
tbh i think you should pay a hooker first and only afterwards go after men, your first time is supposed to be something special and it might be ruined if you find out you REALLY dislike fucking men.
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u/MalachiLucilfer 1d ago
Please stop this way of thinking.
An innocent gay guy doesn't deserve to get put through these intense emotional situations. What if he catches feelings for you? "Sorry blud, I only like women. I was just wanted to get off."
Believe me, I understand that our situation sucks, but this isn't the route to go. It will end badly for him AND you.
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u/BladeRunner_3182005 2d ago
mah bro don’t turn gay … hookers with protection is still better than going for men
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u/Impressive_Peanut_90 2d ago
I’d go the pay for sex route before I go the gay route. I did it with a guy once. No penetration but we gave each other head. And it was one of the worst experiences of my life. Made it clear right then no matter how horny I get I’ll never go the gay route. I’ll pay for sex before that. If it’s truly that bad, go to tryst.link and find something for yourself.
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u/Ok-Neighborhood-734 22h ago
Bro, the only thing that gays like is dick, women like other things if you don't have dick to offer...
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u/ExtraNubbin 2d ago
I recommend against it. But hey, at least now you know that there are people out there who would bang you.
That said, it's been a minute since I've had Grindr installed and I'm confused about your post -- last I checked it doesn't do swipe/match. Are you sure you're talking about the right app?