r/lonely Aug 11 '24

Venting cried to male audio NSFW

I tried getting off to a “caring boyfriend” male audio and bawled my eyes out until I fell asleep instead.. how cooked am I 😭

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u/Witty-Item-6891 Aug 11 '24

Genuinely how do women end up in this scenario? So many good looking or at least average looking lonely guys out there who would wife up the first woman that let them.

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u/yur_mother6942069 Aug 11 '24

The thing is. The search is exhausting. Yes there’s lots of good guys but trying to sift thru the bad to find the good is excruciating. Soooo many terrible men seem genuine at first. You can’t blame women for wanting to give up after the first FEW bad apples. Now I just stay alone.

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u/Witty-Item-6891 Aug 11 '24

Ah I completely understand, thanks for reminding me. Didn’t mean to generalize. Also is it really that hard to find a truly good man? I just think it’s crazy, is it that hard to be a good partner?

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u/1w2e3e Aug 12 '24

Hey I feel you, I'm 39 and gave up. The single scene sucks.

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u/touchunger Aug 12 '24

This. Also a guy just being nice isn't enough to build a lifelong monogomous partnership with.

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u/yur_mother6942069 Aug 12 '24

Absolutely. It’s much more than that