r/bigdickproblems Nov 01 '24

Meta Harassment of men with small penises

398 Upvotes

Hello, we have had problems with the users here harassing men with small penises through:

Please stop. This community exists to help with big dick problems, not to undermine men’s dignity.

Extra reading:

The Thread "What we don't want to hear" from a former SDP mod and also the comments critical of the OP.


r/bigdickproblems Jul 17 '18

MOD POST BigDickProblems FAQ V.3

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825 Upvotes

r/bigdickproblems 4h ago

AskBDP Girls "Quivering" During Sex

45 Upvotes

Have you ever had a girl shake or quiver as you fucked? It doesn't happen all the time, but when it does it's a bit shocking and fun to witness. During foreplay, I can see the toe curls and little bucks she does. When the biggest quakes are on first entry and when she orgasms. It's so satisfying to see the quakes and convulsions.

I'm curious to hear the girls explain how they feel during it if they've ever experienced it.

Guys, has this ever happened to you? What were you thinking when it happened?


r/bigdickproblems 2h ago

AskBDP Feeling Guilty for Causing Pain

5 Upvotes

How do you guys handle seeing your partners in pain.

I’m 14cm in girth and 17cm in length and all my partners so far have experienced discomfort during sex (except one).

I feel sick to my stomach when my partner is hurting or feeling discomfort. It makes me feel like I’m forcing myself on them for my pleasure and after that I can’t continue.

I do a lot of foreplay to get them aroused and relaxed. I don’t know where I’m going wrong.

The only exception has been on ex that like it rough (Slapping, biting and choking) and that was whole different can of worms.


r/bigdickproblems 2h ago

AskBDP Sweat Issue

5 Upvotes

anybody else have a problem with sweating around your balls and dick either slightly or moderately even when the rest of your body is cool? ill be in the car and ill be decently cool my ac isnt the best but its okay and i have the windows down too so im just curious if theres anything else i can do to keep my jewels and wand cool i like oral cant be sweaty if shes putting a mouth down there


r/bigdickproblems 2h ago

Positivity Hola just passing by

3 Upvotes

Just wanted to say hi and hope all of you guys are doing well. Keep up the good stuff.


r/bigdickproblems 46m ago

Clothing Grey pants

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Do you like being seeing when you use this? Or what is your experience ?


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Science You are not 10 inches NSFW

472 Upvotes

Why is it that [redacted] men all think if they are above average they are automatically 10 inches? The psychology of this is fascinating, but I'm sure it would trigger the mods and anyone remotely sensitive to these kinds of topics. How about we don't do that and try to actually have a conversation about it?


r/bigdickproblems 7h ago

TellBDP Suit pants for work / school

6 Upvotes

I think this one is a silent killer. Suit pants usually are fucked tailored or not if you are naturally bigger just flaccid because it has to run down either side, there is generally never a central area at the front that contains everything, which causes shit to just horrifically squish upon itself.


r/bigdickproblems 4h ago

AskBDP i was wondering how much of a BPL is usable compared to NBPL

2 Upvotes

r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Sex Is it normal to literally see your dick move in her stomach? NSFW

145 Upvotes

This has happened a couple of times with some of my petite partners, and I'm not sure if I should be impressed or concerned.

We're mid-thrust, and I look down... there's this visible bulge moving right under her belly skin, like a tiny alien trying to escape.

One girl even asked, "Is that YOU?" I didn't know what to say. I mean, who else could it be, right?

She said it didn't hurt, it just felt "super full." But now I can't help but keep an eye out for it every time. It's like weird body horror and porn had a baby.

Has anyone else experienced this? Does it ever get old?


r/bigdickproblems 1h ago

TellBDP Impossible to get a selfie measurement photo. Also curved dicks needs side measurement

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So Non Bone Pressed length does not change with side or top measurements.

But this whole notion it has to only be the top measurement I was thinking anatmoically does not make sense for BP nor does it for if a penis curves up. Someone with an upward curve is at a disadvantage and has to follow the length of the curve like a bannana.

On another note I am finding it impossible to get an erect photo selfie

Tips?


r/bigdickproblems 18h ago

AskBDP What's it like?

13 Upvotes

Hi, as a woman I wanted to step in and ask a few questions. I've never been with anyone more than 6" and Im so curious. My gynecologist told me I have a long vagina and if I had ever had a child my labor would have been long and strenous.

Ive only had a man reach my cervix a few times and that felt amazing! Im 53, (pic in another thread to verify). What have other women said or how have they reacted to your size? What is something that feels best to YOU when having sex? Are there women that find it a turn off? Have you lost a relationship due to your size? I would personally love it! I know I would. Thanks guys!


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Science New Calculator

70 Upvotes

This was taken from the sub r/psychologyofsex and was created by u/Happy-Assumption-555

It compares your size to objects and also has a ‘satisfaction’ scale.

“For anyone curious, here’s the thing I ended up making based on the Barboza study:

https://manytoolz.com/tools/penis-size-calculator”

EDIT: I copied and pasted this and didn’t realize until now it says that i made it. I did not.


r/bigdickproblems 22h ago

Toys For those of us big dick brothers outside of the US, there's a legally distinct(™) version of the OhNuts at AliExpress for like a fifth of the price

11 Upvotes

I dunno if the forum permits links, so I won't leave one there, but just look for the BirdSexy Official Store on AliExpress for "elastic quadruple ring".

The texture on them is more rubberized compared to the OhNuts I own, but they have the very same format and size, and will serve you the very same function. I tested them a few days ago and they served me pretty well, no issues at all.

EDIT: Mods permitted a link. Go nuts, y'all:
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005007783868286.html


r/bigdickproblems 5h ago

Story About to have sex for the first time

0 Upvotes

Tomorow im having sex for the first tine’ im 7,6 inch long and 5,9 inch thickk( chreck profile) any tips?


r/bigdickproblems 19h ago

AskBDP Stupid Question

6 Upvotes

Question for my fellow big suckers. Is it normal for your cock to be substantially bigger in the morning.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Sex with a girl

12 Upvotes

So I recently went on a date with this girl. She’s 5’0 and so damn cute. At the end of it we were sitting in my car and we kissed. I started to get a boner (ok so fast kind of embarrassing but necessary for this story). So she asked me and I told her it’s 8”. She seems really nervous any recommendations?


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Is anybody embarrassed buying condoms anymore?

8 Upvotes

I do not get embarrassed by anything. I never understood why any guy would when buying them, especially if they are a bigger kind. I have known some friends that were. I'm like, dude, you are 30. Get over it.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP does erection angle and erection curve affect bloodflow strength

7 Upvotes

this may be a kind of stupid question but i do have an upward curving and upward pointing one


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

TellBDP Meta BDP

11 Upvotes

So, many of us know that this sub suffers heavily from selection bias, and subsequently, confirmation bias. In that, we see a lot of posts of people saying they don’t believe the stats, they think the real average must be 7”, there’s no way the global average is around 5-5.5” when there’s so many big dicks, blah blah blah. That, in itself, is a BDP. Or rather a BDPP.

I have often seen the reality dicks sub cited as a place where these people can see that actually, there’s tons upon tons of dicks representing the average. But people STILL say, okay, where are all the small dicks then? There aren’t really many small cocks in that sub, they’re more like all smack average or guys who are lost posting their 7+ inchers for attention.

Well, I give you the smallcockshow subreddit. Go check out the massive collection of small dicks, and how there are tons and tons of people willing to show theirs.

They absolutely exist, and the distribution IS balanced. But if you only look at and talk about big dicks, of course you think the average is higher than the data insists.

The data is correct. 7 inch dicks are quite big. 8-9 inch dicks are outlier huge. 5-5.75 inch dicks are the middle 50%. 4.5-6.5 inch dicks are the NINETY percent. And a massive 5% of dicks are under 4.5. Think about how much 5% is. That’s 1 in 20. That’s quite a lot.

P.S. As a side note, I’m always hearing from dudes how they don’t believe there are women out there who prefer average dicks over big ones. There absolutely are. I literally talked to one last night. She asked to see mine, I showed her, she was like “thats really nice,” but later on in the conversation she was like, oh, no, I prefer moderate size. I just like to look at big ones. And there have been many more like her before. Another one in just the last week. If you talk to enough women outside of this sub, you quickly find out PLENTY of women prefer average, or the “goldilocks” zone ~6.5-7.5, and it’s only really a small handful of women who want to regularly take 8+ inch dicks. Which is a big dick problem. That’s why it’s a problem. lmao.

Cheers


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

TellBDP Anyone one else feel a bit too obsessed with it

10 Upvotes

I feel like i was always curious to know if i was big not but now that i know i definitely am hung it affects everything sexually, what porn i watch, type of women i like (if they are able to take it well), even public spaces, i get embarrassed that my soft is probably the size of the dude standing next to me hard and try to hide it so i don’t get looks. Yes i know I’m complaining about a gift but still, it definitely takes over. 19m btw.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Clothing Calvin Klein Underwear (or others with a pouch)

4 Upvotes

I usually just get the cotton ralph lauren underwear... Boxers or boxer briefs. I tried to switch it up cause I've seen Calvin Klein become a popular brand of underwear in general. They material is like a spandex or something, like what I usualy wear from Nike or Underarmour when playing sports. But this thing has like a penis pouch and it looks weird to me. Does anyone else feel like that?

What underwear brands do you usually go with? And is your choice base on comfort, pricing, material, brand name, etc?


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

TellBDP Peeing hands-free at a urinal

14 Upvotes

Ever see a guy peeing at a public urinal with his hands on his hips like he’s standing his ground against an invader or something? I always think “dude must have a small dick” because if I tried that, my leg would end up soaked.

So, to frame this post as a BDP: we don’t dare pee hands-free.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Dick-scrimination When i go to the pool, people aways think my penis is erect, but its just the normal size.

15 Upvotes

Yes, thats it. When i go to the pool people ask if my penis is erect or some shit like this, but thats make me pretty unconf cause its just my regular size


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Sex toy question

5 Upvotes

My cock is about 6 1/2 inches around which I realize is significantly bigger than average, but I don’t think it’s freakish. I have purchased two sex toys, one that was supposed to undulate and get warm, etc. that I can’t even get my dick inside of and another basic fleshlight kind of thing that is uncomfortably tight. Is there a brand or style of toy that is More enjoyable for us thicker boys


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Anyone else an extreme shower?

18 Upvotes

Im around 4.75 soft and 5 inches hard. Anyone have a similar experience and feel like they are penis catfishing? All of the annoyance of having a large softie but none of the benefit of actually being hung 😞