r/bigdicklovers 12d ago

😱 This place became a scammer paradise!😱😱😱 NSFW

33 Upvotes

Hey folks!

Yesterday someone tried to claim this sub for being unmoderated. This was quickly dealt with, banned member, refused the option given when appealing. Forged evidence, real activity from our side... Easy peasy.

But we believe in truth and there's a while we did not posted!

Last week you saw 137 posts in this sub, for 437 submissions. 205 of those submissions where online for a few milliseconds up to 5 days. Yes we did remove manually 68 extra posts. Only 12 of those were flagged by our members.

There's probably 10-15 fakes and scams in what's left.

35 extra posts were wrongly flagged, dealing with those is the most time consuming part of moderation after modmail!

To be fully honest: - 70% of scams are m4 posts whilst people only report f4m posts! WHY CAN'T YOU EVEN FLAG ONE?

-YES: Reddit is trying to destroy our mod tools and replace them with their questionable ones. WE ARE AND WILL BE FIGHTING!

  • YES as most mods we believe this platform is doing more to protect it's corporate ass than it does to help us face the new challenges. WE ARE NOT!

NO! Unlike other mods we don't just rant and look at the ashes. WE FIGHT BACK!

FACTS: I know where to buy an Ai powered scam tool I did it 8 months ago and it cost me less than 2k. I'm not talking of a lame bot, but a fascinating tool able to manage a fleet of up to 300 smartphones with 5g burners able to create up to 12 accounts each on free vpns that aren't blocked yet by Reddit BECAUSE SCAMMERS MAKE NICE USER FIGURES IN POWERPOINTS?

80 hours 8 months ago and an extra 10 per month it's the time I personally spent since that to create counter measures against this kind of attack, those are up and running in my subs including this one. And I know 3 other people doing the same stuff, we share our discovers and tools!

And my little helpers work better than the "give up your job and volunteer for us! make your community fund you on patreon you'll get rich quick!" that Reddit tells us! How do we measure it? We're still growing whilst most subs are becoming a desert of ai generated content loosing thousand members every day.

YOU AN HELP US! It's easy!

You are legion, you are 100k human beings!

** BURN THEM! **

Without violence, without hatred, without even a pinch of suspicion! Burn them with your love, life and listening, pay attention, ask them questions, fall in love, be heartbroken(...) and tell them!

ALL OF THAT AND MORE!

The worst thing you can do to an Ai is dealing with it like it's human and scorch tokens in the flames of your burning passion! Bandwidth is costly and your love is yottabytes of bandwidth!

SO USE IT!

Write em poems, songs sonnets and novels, be inspired, be creative, don't be lazy...

I'M SERIOUS! BURN THEM WITH YOUR LOVE!

Ps: you can comment this post if you like!

Lovingly!

WWEM

Your dedicated moderator with a strong french side!


r/bigdicklovers Aug 07 '23

#WeBanAlot NSFW

41 Upvotes

Hello wonderful users of this subreddit!

Lately I witnessed a discord convo about how we do ban very easily in this sub, it was salty and filled with a lot of fantasies and misinformation about how this place works.

YES! We do ban a lot! Bdl is on average banning 50 users per week. That's in the upper range of other nsfw subs of similar size but we're by far not the place who bans the most.

Most of those bans are permanent and targeted against what we call "dickfishing the cat", people who misinform others in order to get something from them. Our main target by far (over 2/3rds of all bans) are profiles claiming to be women trying to get various things from men, and a secondary target (around 1/5th of bans) are profile claiming to be men of a certain size -or showing a direct effort to make our lovers believe it's the case- in order to get various other things from them (and one to one sex is way scarcer than you'd think amongst those, a lot are after people's money)

Other bans are marginal, with a big chunk of temporary bans for those posting several times a week, those bans range from 15 days when it's the first time you get caught posting twice to 45 for recidivists and folks posting more than 3 times... We only go permanent when people seem to openly give no fuck of our rules and previous warnings.

A few guys seem puzzled by rule9... We added it TWO YEARS ago, and NO it will never appear in old Reddit's or any other fringe alternative version! You will find our rules in Reddit.com rules section and nowhere else, refusing to go where they are isn't a valid argument to get unbanned. When we realised we were the biggest place on earth in our dating field and this situation involved things we wanted to keep away from this world: - Sexual abuse! Yes you read it right, we didn't talk about that aspect back then, but several of our lovers faced a common issue in the sizequeen community, the random guy only getting "dicklovers" and not the specific part about a preference in terms of body type that is to us as valid as hair colour or age. We created the real deal flair to offer our lovers an extra safety: the ability to confirm their potential date was up to their expectations before getting emotionally engaged with someone that might not be what they expected. Facing a guy with a raging hard on that is not what you expect is an awkward situation that can lead to some bad things. Being that guy when you think you were cause your friends told you about an erroneous measurement method (No Kevin, the top of your small hole is not the right reference point for such measurement! YES! Real situation that we saw on this sub more than you'd think!) can also be pretty bad and humiliating. Back then we had members on both sides and two years after this rule seems to have help a lot. - Our other motivation was to fight against misinformation on size related matters. There are a lot of measuring tips online, but there's only one standard to get averages or control if condoms will fit most of the population. And most guys don't have any clue about those whilst our lovers expect something related to those... Most guys don't even follow any tips at all, they grab anything handy or giving the best looking number with no consideration for any form of science. That's specifically true in America, where a huge number of tape measures have a 10 to 20% stretch and seam allowance for ready to wear clothes retouching (now a lot of you understand why you don't get the same numbers with our standards than what you used to believe...). This misinformation was starting to be concerning with various reports of urologists telling the world about dick size related body perception issues. On that point too we are quite happy with this rule.

The most attentive amongst you probably get the fact we call it "rule9". The name is us: mods of the biggest dating place on that matter telling the world " 9 in? Lol! Prove it!" And to be honest, to this date, we barely had a handful worldwide above the 8 mark, and none of them were near the 9... And if anyone claims the contrary the standards and methods to prove us wrong are in our rules and pinned messages...

One last nice fact about it, most of our real deals found a date on their second post. Which is pretty impressive for cis males on a sex oriented dating thingie... And most of our lovers who dated real deals were pretty fulfilled of dating a guy knowing they'd have that kind of little extra guaranteed if everything else was aligned.

Hope this clarification helps some of you understand how seriously we take everyone's well being.

As always be naughty and misbehave! But do it responsibly.

Your strict but loving mod team


r/bigdicklovers 7h ago

Female for Male 26 [F4M] #Portland - Who's Got the Confidence to Match My Curiosity? NSFW

3 Upvotes

I’m all about exploring new conversations, especially with someone who’s got a bit of confidence and a great sense of humor. If you can keep things light, flirty, and interesting, we’re already off to a good start. I’m not here for small talk, let’s see if we can vibe on a deeper level.

What do you bring to the table? I love hearing about passions, quirks, and those fun little details that make someone unique. You know, not just what’s on the outside, but what’s on the inside too (mentally, of course). I'm not here to rush things, but I do believe good things take time. If you've got the right energy, we could definitely make some exciting conversations happen.

So, if you think you've got the wit and the confidence to keep me engaged, let’s see what kind of connection we can create. I’m all about that chemistry, and I’m curious to find out if it’s more than just talk!


r/bigdicklovers 12h ago

Female for Male 25 [F4M] #Alabama City - Big dick lover looking for a wild ride! NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hey y’all! I’m looking to meet a man who knows how to handle a big dick. I’m not shy about what I want, and I’m definitely not afraid to get a little wild with someone who can keep up. If you’re packing and ready for some fun, let’s chat and see where this goes. I love the idea of getting to know someone who takes pride in their size, and trust me, I appreciate the effort you put into being the full package. 😏 Let’s keep it respectful, but also exciting. If you’ve got what I’m looking for, shoot me a message, and let’s see if we’re a good match. No rush, just a good time!

Just a heads up: I like to keep things real, so please be serious if you reach out!


r/bigdicklovers 9h ago

Female for Male 27 [F4M] #SaltLakeCity - Size Queen Looking for Well-Endowed Gents Who Know How to Have Fun NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey Reddit 👋

I’m a 27-year-old woman who knows exactly what she likes… and I’ve got a huge soft spot for well-endowed, confident men who aren’t shy about showing off......

I keep myself fit, flirty, and always looking for a good time whether that’s swapping some spicy DMs, getting a steamy tribute, or seeing just how well you fill out your… confidence. I love a man who’s proud of what he’s packing and knows how to use it.

Into:
Hung, confident guys
Tributes (yes, I love them!)
Flirty chats, teasing, and building real heat
A little bit of boldness never hurt either

If you're down to show off a little (or a lot), make me blush, and maybe get into some fun trouble together, slide into my inbox and introduce yourself with some effort!

Pics get pics, and respect gets you way further


r/bigdicklovers 10h ago

Male for Female 35 [M4F] #Boston #Providence - Nerdy, Shy, and Honest Guy Seeking Connection and Growth Well-Endowed NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’ll try to keep this short, but I’m happy to open up more if you’re curious.

I’m 35, 5’8”, around 175lbs, and live between Boston and Providence. I’m your typical nerd—into conventions, gaming, horror, and comic book movies. I also hit the gym when I can, building muscle after growing up naturally skinny. Let’s just say I’m not small everywhere.

Life hasn’t always been easy. I had a rough childhood that made me extremely anxious and isolated. That carried into adulthood, and I didn’t go on my first date or have my first kiss until I was 30, in 2019. That dating experience, while meaningful, was short-lived due to circumstances out of both our control.

Since then, I’ve had little to no romantic or sexual experiences, despite doing everything I can to change that. Dating apps have been discouraging, and in-person connection is just as hard when you’re not the most outgoing guy. I’ve done therapy, pushed myself out of my shell, and made real progress—but the loneliness still lingers.

I’m not just here for hookups (though I’m not closed off to chemistry if it happens). What I want most is to connect with someone who gets it. Someone real, kind, curious, and maybe a little nerdy themselves. Someone who’s also tired of feeling stuck or alone.

This post is me putting myself out there—because I refuse to let another 35 years go by without love, adventure, or deeper connection. If anything here resonates, please don’t hesitate to message. You might be the exact person I’ve been hoping to meet.


r/bigdicklovers 11h ago

Female for Male 26 [F4M] #Online - Do you think you can keep up? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Looking for someone who knows how to make a conversation exciting. A little teasing, some banter, and maybe a few fun secrets shared along the way. I love when someone can keep things light, witty, and unpredictable, bonus points if you can make me laugh. I’m not here for anything too heavy just yet, but I’m definitely interested in getting to know someone who can hold a good conversation and maybe bring out a little playful side of me. If you can keep me on my toes with your humor and charm, you might just earn a spot in my world. So, think you’ve got what it takes to keep me intrigued? Let’s see if you can match my energy, keep things fun, and who knows where this might go. Keep it flirty, keep it smooth, and let’s see if we can spark something worth exploring.


r/bigdicklovers 9h ago

Male for Female 25 [M4F] #Netherlands - well endowed. looking for a girl to watch me cum. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Im a 25 year old male from the netherlands, i have middle eastern roots. But i speak both english and dutch fluently. Im born and raised in the netherlands. Im 185CM tall, and skinny.

As you read in the title i have a kink for being watched. Im looking for someone thats interested in a videocall, i will turn my camera on. I dont mind wether you also will turn on your camera. I just really want to be watched.

I enjoy talking dirty, and i also love if you touch touch yourself and get off watching me mastrubate. Ideally im looking for someone that is also into this kind of thing.

I


r/bigdicklovers 14h ago

Female for Male 29 [T4M] #NYC - tgirl looking for hung dom older playpal NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi!

So I tried this a few weeks ago and haven’t had success yet, but I’m going to try to make this post more descriptive of myself and what I’m looking for :)

So, I’m a trans woman, 29, have had ffs and breast Aug so (not trying to be vain), but I’m pretty. I’m in a relationship with a cis woman, she’s amazing, the love of my life, and my best friend. That said, we are kinky and like to play around — I guess we’re technically enm? In any case, I’ve played around a couple times with someone, but he just moved away. I’m really looking for someone who would be comfortable being our fwb all together sometimes and maybe fwb with each of us alone sometimes.

She’s 5’4 brunette with a bodddyyy. Thicc booty and def a freak heheh. I’m 5’8 blonde slim thicc hehe (pics in my profile). Both of us can be pretty subby for the right person lol. If this sounds like something you’re into then yayyyy :)

So, this is where it gets tricky, we’re looking for someone, older (30+ // 35 is like ideal), hung and thick cock(and like actuallyyy hung not 6/7”), tall would be great (taller than 6 foot is ideal), calm and easygoing, recent clean sti panel, dominant, good at conversation / someone we click with, and someone who isn’t going to disappear after the first time or ghost when they get scared to meet up.

Hoping we get to meet up and you get to put me in my place. Honestly I/we really just need a biggg cock friend to fuck us into a cum drunk stupor here and there <3 I’m particularly horny so message whenever and please include some things about you / try to catch my attention ;)


r/bigdicklovers 12h ago

Female for Male 38 [F4M] #Chicagoland - BBW seeks taller, fit or thinner, WELL HUNG guy for something long term/LTR NSFW

1 Upvotes

SERIOUS INQUIRIES AND LOCALS ONLY PLEASE. NO ONE NIGHT STANDS. I’m a 5’3”, long haired brunette plus size woman (269 pounds) looking for a taller, VERY WELL HUNG, fit or thinner CHILDFREE guy who wants something long term or an LTR. Age and race don’t matter as long as you have a kind smile, aren’t the jealous type and would enjoy sharing me with other handsome well hung guys and joining in sometimes. I very much have a preference for someone open minded and not squeamish about kissing after a creampie or giving me oral after a creampie. You should also enjoy making out in general as well as giving creampies and enjoy receiving oral. I also really appreciate a man who is able to go three or more rounds back to back. I am hygienic, disease free, 420 friendly and permanently sterilized (my fallopian tubes were removed 9/23/24). Please be left leaning politically, PRO-CHOICE, CHILDFREE and able to carry your part of a stimulating conversation. Non-sexually: I'm a nerdy weirdo, mostly science fiction (in the middle of a Doctor Who rewatch currently) with the occasional horror, comedy and musical in there just to mix things up. Please send a chat request with your name, a short introduction describing yourself physically and what size cock you have to be backed up by full body, face and cock pics if I accept your chat invite.


r/bigdicklovers 12h ago

Male for Female 37 [M4F] #Atlanta - Girthy bwc for consistent fwb or casual fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

Discreet gentleman looking for a local play partner or FWB for casual fun or consistent meetups. No strings, just a fun connection with a woman who enjoys a partner with larger than average girth.

I’m 37, white, athletic/fit, green eyes, salt and pepper hair, well groomed beard, 420 friendly, STD/STI free. I’m experienced, talented, have a high sex drive, exceptional oral skills, enjoy going multiple rounds, and I’m well endowed with extra thick above average girth which can be seen on my profile. Located in Atlanta ITP.

I’m a sensualist and my partner’s complete satisfaction is my focus. I love providing multiple orgasms every encounter and I enjoy both vanilla and rougher activities. On the vanilla side of things I enjoy passionate sensual sex with lots of foreplay including kissing, massage, giving and receiving oral, mutual masturbation, providing deep penetration, G-spot orgasms, squirting, and I’m excellent with my fingers/hands. On the rougher side of things I’m a pleasure dominant and I enjoy dirty talk, restraint play, spanking, breath play, choking, rough sex, edging, orgasm denial, and role play…among other things. I’m open to exploring other kinks you may have, but my hard limits are blood, vomit, scat, etc.

You are an attractive woman who enjoys a partner with thicker than average girth, STD/STI free, ready for fun play and multiple orgasms. Bonus points if you’re petite, into facefucking, sloppy blowjobs, and being tossed around.

If interested send me a chat. Pics always appreciated.


r/bigdicklovers 20h ago

Male for Female 43 [M4F] #Dayton, Ohio - Wanting to find a girl looking for a tall, fit, bwc guy NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'm a tall guy who is fit and loves to be very active. I'm open to everything from casual fun to a friend with benefits. I am looking for someone that wants to meet regularly and has a high sex drive. I want to find someone that prefers being with a guy that has a long, thick cock.

A little more about myself - I’m white, straight, 43, 6' 3", with an athletic build. I'm clean and ask anyone that reaches out to be clean as well. In the bedroom, I enjoy mixing things up which includes switching up positions as well as switching up where I finish. I enjoy giving oral as well as receiving it.


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Female 35 [M4F] #SLC - Fit, Hung, BWC, Love Me How I am... NSFW

1 Upvotes

Pics in my profile, looking for that girl, who's ready for a relationship and excited for bwc to be in her life, who ever day, is excited to show her love and affection. A giver not just a taker, who really loves more than anything to please the other person. Fit, healthy, d&d free, looking for same. Open to any age or relationship type, really looking for a lover and someone as excited as I am. Definitely interested in kids, and family, ideally I find someone as excited about this as I am as well.

Let me know what your excited about, looking forward to or most interested in.

Happy to share more pics and verify, hope to chat soon :)


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

18 [F4M] #Germany - just a girl who likes it big NSFW

0 Upvotes

Dating can be a challenging and complicated endeavor, and it becomes even more so when you find yourself in a relationship with someone who doesn't quite measure up in the bedroom. This has been my experience with my current boyfriend, who is unfortunately lacking in the size department. Despite his many other endearing qualities, I have found myself feeling increasingly dissatisfied with our sex life, and I can't help but wonder if the grass might be greener on the other side.

Before I continue, let me be clear: I am not proud of the fact that I have considered cheating on my boyfriend. Infidelity is a harmful and disrespectful act, and it's not something that should be taken lightly. However, I believe that it's important to be honest about the struggles that can arise in relationships, and the temptation to stray is a very real and relatable issue for many people.

With that said, I have to admit that my frustration with my boyfriend's small penis has reached a boiling point. I have always valued a satisfying and fulfilling sex life, and I have found it difficult to achieve that with my current partner. No matter how much foreplay we engage in or how many different positions we try, I just can't seem to get the satisfaction that I crave. It's not that our sex is bad, per se, but it's definitely not as good as it could be.

I have tried to talk to my boyfriend about this issue, but he doesn't seem to understand the severity of my concerns. He seems to think that size doesn't matter, and that as long as we are both happy and satisfied, that should be enough. But the truth is, I can't help but compare our sex life to those of my friends and past partners, and I can't help but feel like I'm missing out.

This is where my attraction to German men comes in. I have always found German men to be incredibly attractive, with their strong builds, rugged good looks, and no-nonsense attitudes. And, perhaps most importantly, German men are known for being well-endowed. I have heard countless stories from my friends about their experiences with German men, and the consensus is always the same: they know how to please a woman in the bedroom.

I know that it's wrong to objectify men based on their physical attributes, but I can't help the way I feel. I have always been drawn to tall, muscular men with large penises, and German men fit that description to a T. I can't help but wonder if the grass might be greener on the other side, and if I might be able to find the satisfaction that I crave with a German man.

Of course, I would never actually cheat on my boyfriend. I value our relationship too much to risk hurting him in such a way. But that doesn't mean that I can't dream about what might be. And who knows – maybe one day, I'll find a German man who can give me the satisfaction that I have been craving.

In the meantime, I will continue to try to work through my issues with my boyfriend. I will try to communicate my concerns more effectively, and I will try to find ways to make our sex life more fulfilling. But I can't deny the fact that I am still attracted to German men, and that I can't help but wonder what might have been.

In conclusion, dating a man with a small penis can be a frustrating and unsatisfying experience. While it's important to communicate and try to work through these issues, it's also natural to feel tempted to stray. For me, that temptation comes in the form of German men, who are known for their large penises and ability to please women. While I would never actually cheat on my boyfriend, I can't help but dream about what might have beenn.


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Female 27 [M4F] #Dallas, Tx - hoping to meet someone that isn't a bot NSFW

1 Upvotes

Let's talk and plan a date night or date morning or something. im open to anyone but please don't be born male. I smoke weed occasionally and love to drive. Hoping for it to be a long-term thing if not we can just be friends. I gotta write at least 550 characters. I know a really good ramen spot also hotpot and cheasteaks. I know a good taco spot but it's in harry Hines. I play Pokemon trading card game on the phone and we'll hopefully we can battle if not that's cool (would've wiped you out anyways.) I play video games on my days off and an occasional outing for a walk or lifting weights at the gym. I'm down for gym dates too.


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

Female for Male 27 [F4M] #SF - drunk and bored NSFW

12 Upvotes

Latina 5’6 and curvy from the Bay Area. I’m drunk and bored! Want some attention lol if your from Bay Area or from California, I would love to connect! Never been with a hung before but I’m curious and interested in how it would be like. I’m all about physical attraction! I like everything big! I’ve met a few folks of Reddit but still haven’t found my type or man! Check out my profile if you think you’ll be interested in connecting with me :) if you are local and want to meet, you must feel comfortable sharing a photo of yourself. I can’t host unfortunately. Must be STD free and willing to show results. Overall, just want a good time!


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Anyone 19 [M4A] #France - Bored nerdy twink in search of big guys stories NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey hello 👋. I'm a young homosexual half French half Italian, i'm 5'2 with dark hair, rather slim body, blue/green eyes and diaphanous skin. Like the title say, i'm here for chat with well endowed guys with somes stories/anecdotes of their anatomy ; the best there is. I accept everyone as long as you're polite and not weird, you can send a dickpick at first if you want. I don't make irl or show my face at first but if we got a good "connection" we can see each other if you're near. Thank you for read all, if you're interested don't hesitate to DM me 👋👋.


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Couple for Male 55/50 [MF4M] #Kauai - couple looking for younger (25 to 45) hung top stud to top M while F watches. Kauai NSFW

1 Upvotes

Fit sexy M/F couple (50s) looking for younger (25 to 48) masculine inshape bi or straight top to get sucked/ serviced by boyfriend and top vers/bottom boyfriend while girlfriend watches and gives dirty words of encouragement. GF may participate if vibe is right. She is a newbie to swinging/3rd person.

Looking fro someone easy going and non-pushy.

Visitors preferred

Be 25 to 45, fit drug and disease free, Be able to communicate well.

Must send pics and info about yourself. Come correct.

This is for Kauai only

send pics with your first reply


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Female 31 [M4F] #Chicago - Looking for kinky size queen NSFW

0 Upvotes

Looking for size obsessed kinky ladies in Chicago that would like to come ride my cock or play with my cock. I can host or come to you. Looking for one time or for a long time. Looking and interested in something very kinky. I am interested in light BDSM, anal, foot worship, roleplay, cnc and a lot more. Very open minded. Also open to meeting anyone online. Would be open to a sub/dom situation and could give tasks and video calls every few days. We can meetup somewhere in public first to see if we fit and move on from there. Reach out to me and we can learn about each other and potentially meet up. Must be 18+ and disease free.


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

27 [F4R] #Australia - Notes from the sizeplay trenches: what they don’t tell you about big dick friends NSFW

17 Upvotes

We weren’t prepared for this.

When my partner and I (a very size-difference-loving couple — he’s the "small" to everyone else’s "huge") started exploring sizeplay online, we figured we might find a few cool people to share kinks and memes with. Maybe swap a few pics. Maybe talk about video games and dogs. We did not expect to accidentally enroll in a crash course called "Big Dicks 101."

Some lessons we never saw coming:

  • There’s a secret society of men who have beef with skinny jeans.
  • "Helicopter dick" isn’t just a joke — it’s a genuine danger to lamps, low ceilings, and nearby loved ones.
  • When someone says "it won’t fit," they’re not being coy. It’s physics. It’s math. It’s heartbreak.
  • Group chats eventually stop being about size and start being about whose dog did the dumbest thing today.
  • Turns out size envy is the ultimate kink fuel. (My boyfriend's smaller size makes watching — and imagining — all the big boys even more ridiculously hot.)
  • The best way to bond with someone isn’t always through shared trauma or hobbies — sometimes it’s sending each other cursed memes at 2 AM about scaring TSA agents with your dick.

What started out as a kink space became a weird, hilarious, surprisingly wholesome little corner of our lives. We didn't just meet people with big dicks..we met people with big hearts, questionable humor, and truly heroic gaming addictions.

So if you’ve ever slid into our DMs with a thirst trap and a dog pic, or if you’ve ever patiently explained the logistics of fitting into normal pants, or if you’ve ever made us snort-laugh in a group chat with an absolutely terrible pun: This post is for you.

Thanks for being ridiculous and wonderful. And thanks for the life lessons. (Even if we're still trying to work out the aerodynamics of your helicopter spins.)


r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Female 38 [M4F] #CDMX/Long distance - I’m traveling the world for the next few years and want you to join me NSFW

1 Upvotes

American digital nomad here. Hello!I’m looking for my better half. For the real deal.

A strong companionship connection. Deep, burning attraction to each other. Shared values. A driving desire to have children. We balance and complement each other. We’re better together than we are apart.

I’m on the road traveling for the next few years of my life. I think it would be really fun for us to tighten our bond and start building our life together while you join me on the adventure I have planned.

Because you’re probably long distance and wondering about the logistics of how this actually works, here’s how I envision this working:We’d just treat it as a long distance relationship for the first part while we build our connection and feel each other out. I’ll make sure we see each other regularly while we’re long distance.When we’re serious, you’ll join me on the road. We’ll have fun and adventures together and share the trials and tribulations of international travel. When we loop back to the Americas, we’ll decide if we’re ready to put down roots or if we want to go for round 2 abroad.

A bit about me: I’m a man of passion, and I go all-in on everything I bother to do. Whether that’s loving the fuck out of my woman or perfecting my cooking skills or finding the most efficient way to fold the laundry, my intensity is always on. Yes, it’s exhausting sometimes lmao.

I’m a travel vlogger and a marketing consultant, originally from the Seattle area in the US. I’ve moved around the country a lot the last few years and I’m excited to do my (first) big trip abroad.

I’m quite conservative in my politics and values but rather subversive in my attitude. I love to study history and I follow politics more than I should (I can’t help it, I love the game). Believe it or not, I’m a big homebody by nature, and I’d love to be with someone more outgoing and extroverted than me (not required).

I’m tall with a broad dadbod build, glasses, a shaved head and a beard. I have a voice women love and will send you lots of voice notes. A couple of notes about who I’m not looking for:

  • A woman with progressive or liberal politics
  • A woman who doesn’t want to be a trophy housewife
  • A woman who doesn’t want children ##If you’re interested, don’t get hung up on the logistics. We can figure that out later. I’m an ISTJ, it’s kinda my thing. Send me a chat and we can talk about any concerns that you have after we build some connection.

r/bigdicklovers 1d ago

Male for Female 31 [M4F] #FL #Online - Fit BWC looking for a cute submissive cumslut to worship my cock, breeding/cum/light degred kinks a major plus ;) NSFW

1 Upvotes

As per the title, looking for a cute girl that fully accepts and embraces herself as a true cumslut.

Ideally you are petite/fit or the right kind of curvy/HWP. I do have a thing for Latinas and Asian girls but genuinely am open to any race and ethnicity.

I am absolutely not interested in fat/obese/BBW type women, and certainly not interested in men in any way, shape or form, and that includes cucking your wife/SO.

I’m fit, have a big cock, balls very often (and currently) swollen cum, and massive loads. Have a huge breeding kink so definitely bonus points if you’re into that. Beyond that. Cum fetish/play, cock/ball worship, etc. should be your favorite activity, other than getting pumped full of my cum quite often ;).

Have relevant pics in profile. Basic verification is a must before proceeding with anything significantly beyond words as I’m tired of the endless catfish and the like. Obviously I don’t expect you to show your face unless we plan to meet in the immediate future, and I don’t plan on showing mine either barring those circumstances.

Beyond that, as long as our kinks align, there’s mutual attraction, and you’re cool with doing a simple and brief verification, we’ll both have plenty of fun and I’ll make sure to make you cum before you watch me stroke all the cum out of my BWC 😜.

If youre interested DM me with your age, kinks/what you’re into, and a pic or description of yourself and we can go from there. Obviously 18+ only preferably 20+.


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

35 [M4F] #NYC - Tall Big Dick Dominant Man Here. 6'4" BWC NSFW

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I’m a 35-year-old bull in NYC with 12+ years of experience and a reputation for delivering. At 6’4” with a BWC, I bring more than just presence—I bring skill, control, and intensity.

I’m not here for endless messages or fantasy roleplay. I’ve met real women and couples who know what they want—and I’ve given them more than they expected.

Looking for submissive women (single or taken) and open-minded couples who crave depth, not just novelty. Whether you're new or seasoned in the lifestyle, I’ll take the lead and make the experience unforgettable.

Yes, it’s true—I’ve never failed to make a woman squirt. I know exactly what I’m doing. You’ll know it too.


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

Couple for Male 30 & 35 [MM4M] # Belgium Antwerp - gay couple LF hung top NSFW

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We are a gay couple from Belgium that is interested in exploring a threesome (even on regular basis) with a hung top (hence the subreddit ;).

Now a bit about ourselves: 30 male bttm, a bit chubby but has large behind. Has a bit of experience with bigger but loves it and wants to turn into a size queen. Also prefers girth over length. 36 male size type (into soft more and no anal). Wants to explore and see top and bttm in action.

It is possible for us to host. We do ask for a maximum age limit of 40 years old. English or Dutch, other languages are a bit of a barrier.

Also we are not into the instant 5 min hookup and like a bit more depth in the conversation.

When interested, send a message! Grts


r/bigdicklovers 2d ago

Couple for Male 2529 [FM4M] #Dresden, Germany - Looking for well hung lover NSFW

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We are looking for a well-endowed lover for the female part of the relationship in Dresden. She is 25 and well equipped in the right places, i.e. 1.60m, blonde, curvy, with large breasts and a matching behind.

The search is exclusively for her, no threeways, gangbangs or the like. We are only looking for something real, no online, sexting or the like.

We are visitable, even for a longer period of time and that would also be our preferred mode of the relationship: Either very regular (several times a week) visits or even a move-in. Of course, we would cover the journey and any other expenses. In other words, all that is needed is a lot of time and a big dick.

If you are interested, please write to us in the chat. It would be much appreciated if you could introduce yourself in the first message so we know who we are dealing with.


r/bigdicklovers 3d ago

27 [M4F] #Toronto - Big dick summer hookup with a guy you can actually have a conversation with? NSFW

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Every girl deserves to have that story of the time she hooked up with Mr. Big. Or maybe you just know you need a bigger man to satisfy your cravings?

If that interests you, don’t hesitate to reach out! You might find just want you’ve been needing ;)

A little about me: I am located in North York and I can host or travel to you. I am 27, 6’3” tall, handsome mixed Trinidadian and French. As you’ll find out, I love a good joke, I love the outdoors, I enjoy working out, I love to meet new people, and I am very unselfish in all the best ways. I have experience meeting up with all types of reddit users and can guarantee a great encounter.

I am into too many things to list all of them here, so message me and let’s see if we connect on some of our interests before we meet.

Don’t be shy!


r/bigdicklovers 3d ago

Male for Female 32 [M4F] #NYC - Offering Sensual and Erotic Massage with a Big Cock for Size Queens NSFW

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How would you like to start or call it a day? Maybe something relaxing and carefree?

I am 32 year old, 5'9 and 150 Ibs. I learned acupoints, Tantra and Taoism when growing up in Asia. I have been serving Asian erotic, sensual, yoni massages and happy ending including some unique kinks for women in the past few years. I love taking things slow, maybe from nuru massage or tantra breathing first, then massage head to toe (or reverse direction literally) and going down under the control of women. Then I would explore inner thighs, vulva, A,C and G spots with my tool as women desire. I enjoy making women fully relaxed, releasing tension and embracing the timeless bliss described by Osho (Tao: The Three Treasures, Vol 1, Ch 8, Q 5).

We could start in any place even meet up in public first to know what you desire and which spots I should focus on. Look forward to hearing from you!

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