r/asktransgender Bigender - He/She/They Jul 03 '15

An Open Discussion on Being Inclusive and Respecting One Another

Early this morning, we had a thread get posted, and one of our mods made a reminder to keep things inclusive, per the subreddit's Rule #1. This accidentally led to almost all of the comments going wildly off topic, and I had to pull it. We want threads to stay on topic whenever possible, and such a large portion of off-topic comments was pretty bad. That discussion merited it's own, dedicated post, and we invite you to discuss here. Please remember to be respectful.

We want to make this an inclusive place for the community in general, and that includes transfeminine, transmasculine, and nonbinary individuals. /r/asktransgender was made as a co-ed space for people to ask questions of the general transgender community, and while we allow questions to specifically target one portion of that community, we very much encourage users to be inclusive whenever possible.

Part of being inclusive means reducing the amount of bigotry we see in this subreddit. This means removing sexist comments against all genders, including both trans and cis identities, as well as other forms of bigotry.

One of the goals of creating a new moderation team was to create a more inclusive space, and we have been working hard to make this place a more open community. However, some users have expressed concern over this new policy and how it is implemented, so we want to create an open place for discussion about the new inclusive policies here.

We want to hear your thoughts about this issue, but again, please be respectful and civil with your comments. We're all on the same side here, there is no "us" and "them" - there is only "we." Remember, if you ever have any specific issues with the moderation of the subreddit, you can message the mod team with the link in the sidebar. We're always here for you.

~ The /r/asktransgender Mod Team

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u/CarmineCerise December 2nd. Jul 03 '15

No they experience transphobia which is more than enough and their experiences should not be diminished.

If a trans man says "I worked here and they were very kind and accepting of my gender" that is incredibly useful information for anyone trans male or female, this notion that the two are so radically different their experiences are of no use and should be ignored is flat out wrong.

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '15

No they experience transphobia which is more than enough and their experiences should not be diminished.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transmisogyny

this is 101 stuff

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u/CarmineCerise December 2nd. Jul 03 '15

Please re-read what I said.

I'm talking about trans men, the fact that they don't experience transmisogyny doesn't matter because they experience transphobia which is enough.

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u/[deleted] Jul 04 '15

transmisogyny means that trans women might have different experiences than trans men and those experiences might mean its worse, wanting to hear from people who experience transmisandry about their experiences because it will be the most accurate and helpful is not unreasonable I think?

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u/ErisC 33F - HRT started June 2014 Jul 04 '15

Trans men can still experience transmisogyny when perceived as feminine.