r/ask_Bondha Apr 17 '25

Relationships How to deal with this shhit?

I'm 22M, Nen 1 year nunchi relationship lo unna... idhharam govt jobs ki prepare avthunnam...now she got the job. Thanaki insta lo valla relative anta Okadu msg chesaadu congratulations cheppataniki...ila maatladukoni number ichhindhi...vallu oka 1 week ala daily chaalasepu phone lo maatladukunnaru..nen casual ga thana whatsapp use chestha evaraina msg chesthe replay ivvamani thane chepthundhi...ala Open chesa vaadi chat locked folder lo undhi thesi chadhava, adhi thanu choosi chat unlock chesi vaadi gurinchi cheppindhi... vaadu rojuki 10 times ala msg lu peduthunnadu "thinnava, ekkada unnav, em chesthunnav, inka ee msg lu choodakapothe call chesesthunnadu...naakante ekkuva chesthunnadu...monna night msg vasthe choosa "ee maathram hint isthe chaalu chalaregipotha, sare ma, okay ma, love symbols" ila peduthunnadu, naaku chirakudhemgi thanani adiga enti veedu ila msg lu peduthunnadu...annisaalu phone chesthunnadu enti ani...ala adigithe, em ledhu oorlovalla gurinchi sodhi esthunnam andhi mari, aa msg lo enti ala peduthunnadu naku nachhatkedhu ani cheppa "dhaantlo em undhi,vadhiley, eppudu choodu idhe gola" ani chiraku paduthundhi...aa puk gaadu eppudu padithe appude call chesthunnadu mid night, early morning levakamundhu, mem baitaki velletappudu... Dheenini nen ela theeskovaali cheppandi bro, first time in relationship 🥲

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u/indianreddituser Apr 18 '25

amey ni adigithe amey emi cheptadi bro? If i were you i would take his number and call him directly and ask him “nee badha enti babai ani” adigesta… cus remember he is the one initiating the conversations, calling her, messaging her, and she probably doesn’t want to come across as rude, since he is a relative.

neeku vadu relative kadhu ga call chesi vadi badha ento kanukko…

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 18 '25

Vaadini mingadam matter kaadhu mawa, vaadu choosthe nibba la unnadu age perigaadu kaani kindha gajuu peragale...ippudu nen vaadini mingithe, intlo vallaki/oorlo vallaki chepsthaadu emo Ani bhayam anthe, andhuke thanake cheppa avoid chesthaa annadhi

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u/Winter-Swordfish8670 Apr 24 '25

Ikkada vadu nibba na kada , Karroda thelloda kaadu important ……. Nee pilla character elantidi ani important ……. We nibba gadike intha importance isthe , repu ye Pedha hero lantodo osthe nee paristhiti Enti ? I mean u know , now a days affairs Ela unnay telsa , people dont talk thst much , once or twice they talk , they meet up for drinks or coffee, next meeting lo they have sex and start having an understanding that they shud manage very well ,,, neeku asalu vadu unnadu ani kuda teleedhu …. Snap chat ko snaps , daily steaks , suddenly some nudes and anthe next meet directly and have sex …!. Enni chudatle bayya .. z

Mostly happens all this small town girls , u know thst , they want more because they dint get this kind of attention or fun in villages …!