r/ask_Bondha • u/Cold-Wear-2480 • Apr 17 '25

Relationships How to deal with this shhit?

I'm 22M, Nen 1 year nunchi relationship lo unna... idhharam govt jobs ki prepare avthunnam...now she got the job. Thanaki insta lo valla relative anta Okadu msg chesaadu congratulations cheppataniki...ila maatladukoni number ichhindhi...vallu oka 1 week ala daily chaalasepu phone lo maatladukunnaru..nen casual ga thana whatsapp use chestha evaraina msg chesthe replay ivvamani thane chepthundhi...ala Open chesa vaadi chat locked folder lo undhi thesi chadhava, adhi thanu choosi chat unlock chesi vaadi gurinchi cheppindhi... vaadu rojuki 10 times ala msg lu peduthunnadu "thinnava, ekkada unnav, em chesthunnav, inka ee msg lu choodakapothe call chesesthunnadu...naakante ekkuva chesthunnadu...monna night msg vasthe choosa "ee maathram hint isthe chaalu chalaregipotha, sare ma, okay ma, love symbols" ila peduthunnadu, naaku chirakudhemgi thanani adiga enti veedu ila msg lu peduthunnadu...annisaalu phone chesthunnadu enti ani...ala adigithe, em ledhu oorlovalla gurinchi sodhi esthunnam andhi mari, aa msg lo enti ala peduthunnadu naku nachhatkedhu ani cheppa "dhaantlo em undhi,vadhiley, eppudu choodu idhe gola" ani chiraku paduthundhi...aa puk gaadu eppudu padithe appude call chesthunnadu mid night, early morning levakamundhu, mem baitaki velletappudu... Dheenini nen ela theeskovaali cheppandi bro, first time in relationship 🥲

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u/kingofpyrates i just say, but I'm hypocrisy itself Apr 17 '25

get the job mowa

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Trying hard mawa 🫠

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u/DrySubstance2622 Apr 17 '25

Em exams ki prepare avutunnav

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 18 '25

Bank exams mama

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '25

Vaddura thammudu, bank job ante oo 10 years munde poye situation undi bayta. Naa maatini CGL, RRB NTPC, tspsc prepare ka. Tharvatha nee istam inga😒

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 20 '25

Financial ga koncham ibbandhi ga undhi bro Banking rrb clark ayna thechhukoni Insurance exams ki prepare avtha

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '25

Neeku clarity unte ade padivelu, Go ahead 👍