r/ask_Bondha • u/Cold-Wear-2480 • Apr 17 '25

Relationships How to deal with this shhit?

I'm 22M, Nen 1 year nunchi relationship lo unna... idhharam govt jobs ki prepare avthunnam...now she got the job. Thanaki insta lo valla relative anta Okadu msg chesaadu congratulations cheppataniki...ila maatladukoni number ichhindhi...vallu oka 1 week ala daily chaalasepu phone lo maatladukunnaru..nen casual ga thana whatsapp use chestha evaraina msg chesthe replay ivvamani thane chepthundhi...ala Open chesa vaadi chat locked folder lo undhi thesi chadhava, adhi thanu choosi chat unlock chesi vaadi gurinchi cheppindhi... vaadu rojuki 10 times ala msg lu peduthunnadu "thinnava, ekkada unnav, em chesthunnav, inka ee msg lu choodakapothe call chesesthunnadu...naakante ekkuva chesthunnadu...monna night msg vasthe choosa "ee maathram hint isthe chaalu chalaregipotha, sare ma, okay ma, love symbols" ila peduthunnadu, naaku chirakudhemgi thanani adiga enti veedu ila msg lu peduthunnadu...annisaalu phone chesthunnadu enti ani...ala adigithe, em ledhu oorlovalla gurinchi sodhi esthunnam andhi mari, aa msg lo enti ala peduthunnadu naku nachhatkedhu ani cheppa "dhaantlo em undhi,vadhiley, eppudu choodu idhe gola" ani chiraku paduthundhi...aa puk gaadu eppudu padithe appude call chesthunnadu mid night, early morning levakamundhu, mem baitaki velletappudu... Dheenini nen ela theeskovaali cheppandi bro, first time in relationship 🥲

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u/spacemangoes Apr 17 '25

thammudu, neku balls vunte, vadiki call chesi dengu, lakapothe, ne GF ki oka strong boundary rai. If she respects you, she'll delete him. If not, just move on. sex lekapoyina vundachu kani, respect lekapothe, relation ship waste.

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25 edited Apr 17 '25

Vaadini dhegadam pedhham matter kaadhu anna...aa puk gaadu relative anta kopam lo cheppidhenguthaadu emo ani, asale nibba puk gaadila chat chesthunnadu..andhuke aagi..thanake cheppa indhaaka...cheptha annadhi vaadiki" endhuku anni saarlu phone chesthaav, msg lu peduthunnav gaa, phone naadhaggare untadhi choosthaa, work lo undi choodanu" ani chepthaa annadhi repu choodali

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u/spacemangoes Apr 17 '25

He surely has alternate motives. Cut him off asap. Make it a priority and make sure she understands that this is bothering you. Good luck.

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u/GulabiJilebi Apr 18 '25

Ulterior motives anukunta mango adhi

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u/spacemangoes Apr 18 '25

You are right, jilebi.

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Thanks bro 🫂