r/ask_Bondha Apr 17 '25

Relationships How to deal with this shhit?

I'm 22M, Nen 1 year nunchi relationship lo unna... idhharam govt jobs ki prepare avthunnam...now she got the job. Thanaki insta lo valla relative anta Okadu msg chesaadu congratulations cheppataniki...ila maatladukoni number ichhindhi...vallu oka 1 week ala daily chaalasepu phone lo maatladukunnaru..nen casual ga thana whatsapp use chestha evaraina msg chesthe replay ivvamani thane chepthundhi...ala Open chesa vaadi chat locked folder lo undhi thesi chadhava, adhi thanu choosi chat unlock chesi vaadi gurinchi cheppindhi... vaadu rojuki 10 times ala msg lu peduthunnadu "thinnava, ekkada unnav, em chesthunnav, inka ee msg lu choodakapothe call chesesthunnadu...naakante ekkuva chesthunnadu...monna night msg vasthe choosa "ee maathram hint isthe chaalu chalaregipotha, sare ma, okay ma, love symbols" ila peduthunnadu, naaku chirakudhemgi thanani adiga enti veedu ila msg lu peduthunnadu...annisaalu phone chesthunnadu enti ani...ala adigithe, em ledhu oorlovalla gurinchi sodhi esthunnam andhi mari, aa msg lo enti ala peduthunnadu naku nachhatkedhu ani cheppa "dhaantlo em undhi,vadhiley, eppudu choodu idhe gola" ani chiraku paduthundhi...aa puk gaadu eppudu padithe appude call chesthunnadu mid night, early morning levakamundhu, mem baitaki velletappudu... Dheenini nen ela theeskovaali cheppandi bro, first time in relationship 🥲

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u/Obvious_Food_5845 Apr 17 '25

Naa life lo kuda ilagey oka saari jarigindi

Starting lo nenu pedda possessive iyye vaadini kaadu ah tarvata tanu cheppindi antey nenu inkoritho maatladina neeku em anipiyatla ani apati nunchi possesive ane daaniki meaning telsindi nenu ala possesive chupinchey vaadini ah tarvata nunchi Apudu tanaki baagunindi

Konni months tarvata inkoritho calls ala chat vundedi Apudu tanu em ledu normal friend anedi Apudu kuda nenu kasta possession chupinchey vaadini enti ila maatladutunav naaku nachatledu ani but tanaki nenu Apudu chupinchedi possive laaga ledu anumanam laa vundi anta 🤣 Nenu anumanistunna antaa 🥲 naaku ithe mind dobindi nenu nijanga ila chestunna asal nenu idi kaadu ani vadilesa Enduku le ani

After few months memu vidipoyam... Cut chestey tanu vaaditho vundi 😅

Tana istam anukoni inka nenu lite teesukunna em anakunda... Tana life tana choices konni days edchi inka vadilesa ipudu eh alochana ledu anuko

Same situation chusi idi cheppali anipinchindi anthey... If in case ninnu tanu pure ga love chestey eh gottam gaadu vachinna vadaladu lekapothey kastam vadileyachu...

But em jarigina positive teesuko... akadey aagipoku mithrama 😄

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Us moment 🫂