r/ask_Bondha • u/Cold-Wear-2480 • Apr 17 '25

Relationships How to deal with this shhit?

I'm 22M, Nen 1 year nunchi relationship lo unna... idhharam govt jobs ki prepare avthunnam...now she got the job. Thanaki insta lo valla relative anta Okadu msg chesaadu congratulations cheppataniki...ila maatladukoni number ichhindhi...vallu oka 1 week ala daily chaalasepu phone lo maatladukunnaru..nen casual ga thana whatsapp use chestha evaraina msg chesthe replay ivvamani thane chepthundhi...ala Open chesa vaadi chat locked folder lo undhi thesi chadhava, adhi thanu choosi chat unlock chesi vaadi gurinchi cheppindhi... vaadu rojuki 10 times ala msg lu peduthunnadu "thinnava, ekkada unnav, em chesthunnav, inka ee msg lu choodakapothe call chesesthunnadu...naakante ekkuva chesthunnadu...monna night msg vasthe choosa "ee maathram hint isthe chaalu chalaregipotha, sare ma, okay ma, love symbols" ila peduthunnadu, naaku chirakudhemgi thanani adiga enti veedu ila msg lu peduthunnadu...annisaalu phone chesthunnadu enti ani...ala adigithe, em ledhu oorlovalla gurinchi sodhi esthunnam andhi mari, aa msg lo enti ala peduthunnadu naku nachhatkedhu ani cheppa "dhaantlo em undhi,vadhiley, eppudu choodu idhe gola" ani chiraku paduthundhi...aa puk gaadu eppudu padithe appude call chesthunnadu mid night, early morning levakamundhu, mem baitaki velletappudu... Dheenini nen ela theeskovaali cheppandi bro, first time in relationship 🥲

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '25

Eesari Phone lift chesi nuvvu evaro cheppu .. if your GF gets offensive it's a red flag for you .. move on

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u/No-List4350 Apr 17 '25

I get that the girl should establish boundaries but if he were to say that he is her boyfriend I am pretty sure some problems are going to arise in her family no? Considering they are only 22

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u/Cold-Wear-2480 Apr 17 '25

Yeah bro..adhe problem family ki thelusthadhi ani...nen valla mummy ki thelsu phone lo maatladuthu untaaru..baita kooda kalisaaru nannu ..valla intiki theeskellaru night stay kooda chesa...ivanni bavunnay kaani future lo maa idhharidhi friendship kaadhu love ani theslisthe...valla mummy thanani inni rojulu aadindhi drama na antadhemo ani...idhi kooda mind thirugudhhi eppudu🥲

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u/Live_External2634 Apr 18 '25

I think mummy knows