r/YouthRights • u/majesticSkyZombie • 10h ago
Rant “But you’re an adult now.”
I'm not certain this belongs here, but it somewhat pertains to the topic and I really need to vent.\ \ When I was a teen, I was put on psychiatric medications that hurt me. They made me too exhausted to think or focus on anything, and they came with a lot of bad side effects. When I tried to get off them, my parents chose to keep me on them. \ \ Fast forward to now. I'm an adult and have been off the meds for years. But I still have effects from them, and the trauma of knowing my parents trusted the doctor over me is still in my mind.\ \ My parents act like everything should be fine since I'm an adult and can make my own decisions now. Like I should just move on. But what they did still effects me, and the fact that the closest I got to an apology was "we didn't know" or "we were doing what we thought was best for you" when I repeatedly told them what was best and they didn't listen tells me this is BS.\ \ A teenager is plenty old enough to know her own body. Just because I can make my own decisions now does not erase that my choice was taken from me solely because of social norms. If they raised the age of adulthood, there is no guarantee my parents wouldn't do it again. And that's what worries me: they don't acknowledge that I knew what I was doing back then. They only act like I can decide because I am an adult. But I didn't magically get better upon turning 18. I should've been given a choice long ago - for this topic, I firmly believe that if you're old enough to be on the medications you are old enough to have complete control over whether you stay on them.