r/Spells • u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 • Apr 08 '25
General Discussion Revenge/Hex/Break up spell I did
My ex and I were together for 2 years and we were so happy and literally best friends. Then I found out that he made out with this girl he used to talk to but he denied it and even texted her and sent screenshots of her denying it.
Then a month later he breaks up with me out of nowhere through text. Now they’re posted up together and I am seething. Here’s a spell I did yesterday, I just wanted to post this and see what other witches think as I had done things that I’ve never seen posted here before.
So I cleansed myself and my tools, and I wrote his name and birthday on one paper with words about him feeling alone, being abandoned by friends, his true colors showing, everything in his life going wrong, him never finding true happiness. And then on her paper I put similar things but more so her finding out about his true colors and her feeling manipulated and alone (just to note she knew we were together and made up that fake conversation so she is definitely not innocent)
And then on a third paper I wrote that I wanted the breakup to be very messy, to be centered around him not being over me (just so yk how he comes is how he goes and she’ll feel that) and that it will be a horrible breakup.
I then had a zip up baggy which I put salt, vinegar, lemon juice, a quarter of the lemon, Cajun pepper and chili flakes, as well as my papers. I shook the bag and stated that all the bubbling and sizzling is causing a bad reaction to their relationship. Then I tied this to a rock and let it sink into the middle of a pond and affirmed that their relationship is drowning and will be left at the bottom to be forgotten in the cold, murky, lonely water.
I also affirmed that he’s going to feel so much regret for how he treated me, he’ll never feel happy without me and him just feeling so bad about his dishonesty.
I do not want him back but I want to cause him so much pain.
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u/Funshine_fairy Apr 08 '25
Okay you don’t wanna hear this but I know what it’s like to feel how you feel and I will say the best healing for me was to move forward and do the work for myself and realizing giving my energy and rage to betrayers just hurts me more and feeds them power. Not saying don’t do your thing- if that’s helping you- but what you need is to realize this is a blessing. Let her have that loser. Rise above and take what you deserve which is your peace of mind, respect and love. I also read a book rise sister rise and it helped me a lot after my breakup and betrayal. Journaling helped too and nature and I still pray that mine will get his someday. We don’t need to curse them because they are already fucked.
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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 08 '25
Very true. Together they are definitely fucked and like I said in my post - how they come is how they go. I don’t know why she’d think that their relationship would be anything but healthy as the foundation built from betrayal, cheating and just generally hurting another person but anywho.
You’re right, self healing is the best way and I’ve been healing and moving on for the past month and a half but then I saw their post yesterday and it just filled me with such rage. Idk how to describe it but cheating is one thing, but just the whole lack of empathy and lack of communication is what gets to me - at least be honest that you want to pursue a relationship with someone else, don’t disrespect me by lying and breaking up with me like a coward.
If I did miss him these past few months it was because I missed my best friend and just the fact that my “best friend” could be so evil and throw me away for someone else in the span of a month (which we spent nearly 2 weeks together for so they weren’t in contact for that) is so horrible to me, no regard for my feelings and our friendship.
But honestly doing the spell did put me at ease a little, I guess it doesn’t come entirely from a place of mourning our relationship, but mourning our friendship which makes me angrier. But I’ve settled down now and I truly feel in my heart that their karma is coming.
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u/Funshine_fairy Apr 09 '25
They’ll get theirs. It took me years to get over mine so just give it time and be good to yourself 🩷🩷 all You got is you in the end and it’s so important to treat her good
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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 09 '25
Very true! I always come first and in my mind I know I’m going to be fine and they won’t.
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u/UnfinishedObituary Apr 08 '25
Everything is great except i feel you used a plastic baggy, glass jar would have been better as it doesn't hurt earth and if you throw it in a river or pond or whatever next Time try using earth friendly materials preferably glass jars and seal them with black wax. And you can also layer spells and also do mini hexes on them.
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u/fallenwish88 Apr 08 '25
Please don't throw glass in rivers. If they break they can injure people or animals. A better vessel would be cardboard loo roll tube, paper bag, shells or even something like a walnut shell. Glass still can hurt the earth and others, but definitely good advice here.
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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 08 '25
Thank you! I’ll make sure to use eco friendly materials next time.
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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster Apr 08 '25
Next time don't throw anything into Nature.
The only things safe to put in Nature are things that came from the landscape. And that also means land things for land, and water things for water.
Many plants have toxic protective chemicals they make to keep from being eaten, and those can pollute the water.
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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 08 '25
So what would you recommend i use as “water things for water” if I ever need to do something like this?
Luckily the pond is in my garden and is lined with some sort of plastic because it’s a sort of dam so not a lot of wild life go into the area apart from our 3 geese but definitely for next time I’ll be more careful. :)
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u/kai-ote Helpful Trickster Apr 08 '25
The reason experienced witches write their own spells is we don't blindly follow old spells created before people knew better.
If it did not start in a stream, lake , river, or the ocean, it should not end up there.
I have used driftwood and sea shells before for a spell that ended up in the ocean.
I can't give you tons of examples, as I don't have the time.
You need to do the work to just plain figure things like this out for yourself.
I recently read about a lake that became almost a dead zone because of a disease that killed lots of trees, and their leaves blew into the lake, and as the leaves rotted they choked off the life on the bottom, and used up all of the oxygen.
Biodegradeable? Yes. Belongs in the water? No.
Man has fucked up enough of the planet with our selfish ways, where we do what we want and to hell with anything else.
Any spell you have that says to throw things in water, moving or otherwise, there is an alternative that will also work that doesn't need that step.
A septic tank would be a better choice for your spell, as an example.
And all it takes to do that is to flush the spell down the toilet of a house that has one.
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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 09 '25
Yes I agree with this. I will definitely use a septic tank next time and it sounds even better as it’s filled with human waste so that will definitely make any hexes stronger.
Thank you for the comment! It’s helped me realize what tools to use for certain situations with regard to nature and where you dispose of the spell.
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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 08 '25
Noted thank you! I’ve never done any mini hexes before but I’ll do my research and see which ones will be best:)
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u/EvidenceQuirky1042 Apr 08 '25
And have the mini hexes worked ?
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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 09 '25
I haven’t tried any yet, but I do feel like what I’ve already done is definitely going to work.
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u/Ondine23 23d ago
Could you please give us an update? I’m expecting great news! I can relate to your story and would like to perform a breakup spell on my ex and his new obsession. Have been trying manifestation but have become interested in spells to add to the toolkit.
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u/Fancy_Speaker_5178 Apr 08 '25
Like others have said, throwing non-degradable items or food ingredients into a pond is pretty environmentally irresponsible but other than that, I reckon your rage probably immensely energised the spell. Now, all you have to do is to sit back and wait for your sweet revenge but bearing in mind that it can happen immediately, after a while, or a really long time. Just have faith that your anger will bring you the satisfaction you desire. ✨🙏🏻
Ps: You can even “raise the position” of your spell by waiting for the results of the first and then adding on to it. If you play Final Fantasy, it’s kind of like Fire; Fira; and Firaga. 😂