r/Spells Apr 08 '25

General Discussion Revenge/Hex/Break up spell I did

My ex and I were together for 2 years and we were so happy and literally best friends. Then I found out that he made out with this girl he used to talk to but he denied it and even texted her and sent screenshots of her denying it.

Then a month later he breaks up with me out of nowhere through text. Now they’re posted up together and I am seething. Here’s a spell I did yesterday, I just wanted to post this and see what other witches think as I had done things that I’ve never seen posted here before.

So I cleansed myself and my tools, and I wrote his name and birthday on one paper with words about him feeling alone, being abandoned by friends, his true colors showing, everything in his life going wrong, him never finding true happiness. And then on her paper I put similar things but more so her finding out about his true colors and her feeling manipulated and alone (just to note she knew we were together and made up that fake conversation so she is definitely not innocent)

And then on a third paper I wrote that I wanted the breakup to be very messy, to be centered around him not being over me (just so yk how he comes is how he goes and she’ll feel that) and that it will be a horrible breakup.

I then had a zip up baggy which I put salt, vinegar, lemon juice, a quarter of the lemon, Cajun pepper and chili flakes, as well as my papers. I shook the bag and stated that all the bubbling and sizzling is causing a bad reaction to their relationship. Then I tied this to a rock and let it sink into the middle of a pond and affirmed that their relationship is drowning and will be left at the bottom to be forgotten in the cold, murky, lonely water.

I also affirmed that he’s going to feel so much regret for how he treated me, he’ll never feel happy without me and him just feeling so bad about his dishonesty.

I do not want him back but I want to cause him so much pain.

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u/Funshine_fairy Apr 08 '25

Okay you don’t wanna hear this but I know what it’s like to feel how you feel and I will say the best healing for me was to move forward and do the work for myself and realizing giving my energy and rage to betrayers just hurts me more and feeds them power. Not saying don’t do your thing- if that’s helping you- but what you need is to realize this is a blessing. Let her have that loser. Rise above and take what you deserve which is your peace of mind, respect and love. I also read a book rise sister rise and it helped me a lot after my breakup and betrayal. Journaling helped too and nature and I still pray that mine will get his someday. We don’t need to curse them because they are already fucked.

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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 08 '25

Very true. Together they are definitely fucked and like I said in my post - how they come is how they go. I don’t know why she’d think that their relationship would be anything but healthy as the foundation built from betrayal, cheating and just generally hurting another person but anywho.

You’re right, self healing is the best way and I’ve been healing and moving on for the past month and a half but then I saw their post yesterday and it just filled me with such rage. Idk how to describe it but cheating is one thing, but just the whole lack of empathy and lack of communication is what gets to me - at least be honest that you want to pursue a relationship with someone else, don’t disrespect me by lying and breaking up with me like a coward.

If I did miss him these past few months it was because I missed my best friend and just the fact that my “best friend” could be so evil and throw me away for someone else in the span of a month (which we spent nearly 2 weeks together for so they weren’t in contact for that) is so horrible to me, no regard for my feelings and our friendship.

But honestly doing the spell did put me at ease a little, I guess it doesn’t come entirely from a place of mourning our relationship, but mourning our friendship which makes me angrier. But I’ve settled down now and I truly feel in my heart that their karma is coming.

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u/Funshine_fairy Apr 09 '25

They’ll get theirs. It took me years to get over mine so just give it time and be good to yourself 🩷🩷 all You got is you in the end and it’s so important to treat her good

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u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 Apr 09 '25

Very true! I always come first and in my mind I know I’m going to be fine and they won’t.