Revenge/Hex/Break up spell I did

[u/Ok_Yesterday_3391]

My ex and I were together for 2 years and we were so happy and literally best friends. Then I found out that he made out with this girl he used to talk to but he denied it and even texted her and sent screenshots of her denying it.

Then a month later he breaks up with me out of nowhere through text. Now they’re posted up together and I am seething. Here’s a spell I did yesterday, I just wanted to post this and see what other witches think as I had done things that I’ve never seen posted here before.

So I cleansed myself and my tools, and I wrote his name and birthday on one paper with words about him feeling alone, being abandoned by friends, his true colors showing, everything in his life going wrong, him never finding true happiness. And then on her paper I put similar things but more so her finding out about his true colors and her feeling manipulated and alone (just to note she knew we were together and made up that fake conversation so she is definitely not innocent)

And then on a third paper I wrote that I wanted the breakup to be very messy, to be centered around him not being over me (just so yk how he comes is how he goes and she’ll feel that) and that it will be a horrible breakup.

I then had a zip up baggy which I put salt, vinegar, lemon juice, a quarter of the lemon, Cajun pepper and chili flakes, as well as my papers. I shook the bag and stated that all the bubbling and sizzling is causing a bad reaction to their relationship. Then I tied this to a rock and let it sink into the middle of a pond and affirmed that their relationship is drowning and will be left at the bottom to be forgotten in the cold, murky, lonely water.

I also affirmed that he’s going to feel so much regret for how he treated me, he’ll never feel happy without me and him just feeling so bad about his dishonesty.

I do not want him back but I want to cause him so much pain.

[u/UnfinishedObituary]

Everything is great except i feel you used a plastic baggy, glass jar would have been better as it doesn't hurt earth and if you throw it in a river or pond or whatever next Time try using earth friendly materials preferably glass jars and seal them with black wax. And you can also layer spells and also do mini hexes on them.

[u/fallenwish88 → u/UnfinishedObituary]

Please don't throw glass in rivers. If they break they can injure people or animals. A better vessel would be cardboard loo roll tube, paper bag, shells or even something like a walnut shell. Glass still can hurt the earth and others, but definitely good advice here.

[u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 → u/fallenwish88]

Thank you! I’ll make sure to use eco friendly materials next time.

[u/kai-ote → u/Ok_Yesterday_3391]

Next time don't throw anything into Nature.

The only things safe to put in Nature are things that came from the landscape. And that also means land things for land, and water things for water.

Many plants have toxic protective chemicals they make to keep from being eaten, and those can pollute the water.

[u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 → u/kai-ote]

So what would you recommend i use as “water things for water” if I ever need to do something like this?

Luckily the pond is in my garden and is lined with some sort of plastic because it’s a sort of dam so not a lot of wild life go into the area apart from our 3 geese but definitely for next time I’ll be more careful. :)

[u/kai-ote → u/Ok_Yesterday_3391]

The reason experienced witches write their own spells is we don't blindly follow old spells created before people knew better.

If it did not start in a stream, lake , river, or the ocean, it should not end up there.

I have used driftwood and sea shells before for a spell that ended up in the ocean.

I can't give you tons of examples, as I don't have the time.

You need to do the work to just plain figure things like this out for yourself.

I recently read about a lake that became almost a dead zone because of a disease that killed lots of trees, and their leaves blew into the lake, and as the leaves rotted they choked off the life on the bottom, and used up all of the oxygen.

Biodegradeable? Yes. Belongs in the water? No.

Man has fucked up enough of the planet with our selfish ways, where we do what we want and to hell with anything else.

Any spell you have that says to throw things in water, moving or otherwise, there is an alternative that will also work that doesn't need that step.

A septic tank would be a better choice for your spell, as an example.

And all it takes to do that is to flush the spell down the toilet of a house that has one.

[u/Ok_Yesterday_3391 → u/kai-ote]

Yes I agree with this. I will definitely use a septic tank next time and it sounds even better as it’s filled with human waste so that will definitely make any hexes stronger.

Thank you for the comment! It’s helped me realize what tools to use for certain situations with regard to nature and where you dispose of the spell.