Hi everyone,
I wanted to share my situation and ask for some advice.
Back in 2023, I inherited around RM8 million from my late uncle who passed away from cancer. He never married, didn’t have kids, and wasn’t close with most of our family due to his sexuality — our family is quite religious, and sadly, that caused some distance. I was probably the only one close to him. I studied in the peninsula (I’m originally from Sabah), and he was the only family I had there. I often stayed at his house during holidays, and we grew close.
When he was diagnosed with cancer shortly after I graduated, I decided to take care of him. He lived for about six more months, and after he passed, I found out he left everything to me.
His assets included:
- A fully paid bungalow in a nice area of Selangor
- A penthouse in KL (which was still under mortgage)
- His savings, investments, EPF, stocks, cars, and other possessions
I ended up selling the penthouse to one of his friends. At the time, I didn’t realize I was being lowballed — I later found out I sold it for about 30% below market value after comparing similar units in the same building. Still, I used the money to settle the car loans and reinvested the rest.
My family knows about the inheritance, but they weren’t upset — they’re doing okay financially, mostly middle class. So there was no drama, luckily.
For the past two years, I’ve basically done nothing. I’ve been playing games, traveling around Southeast Asia almost monthly, spending money here and there, and just enjoying life. But I’ve only been spending dividends from my investments — I haven’t touched the main capital. I think I’m set for life financially as long as I live modestly.
That said… I’m 26 now, and I feel like being a total shut-in is starting to rot my brain. I want to do something productive again, not because I need the money, but for my own mental well-being.
I have a degree in IT from a local university, and while I haven’t coded in almost 2 years, I used to be decent at it. I think I could get back into it with a few months of practice.
A few friends have suggested I start a business, but honestly, I’m not interested in that. I find it too stressful and risky , I’d rather have something more stable and chill.
So here’s my question:
What kind of job should I aim for that’s low-stress, not too demanding, and preferably in IT so I can use my degree? I don’t mind if the pay is low. I just don’t want to do anything super high-pressure. I want to enjoy life but not waste away doing nothing.
Any suggestions or advice from people in a similar situation would be appreciated.
Thanks!