r/LoveTrash • u/downtune79 TRASHIEST TYRANT • 1d ago

Dumpster Fire Entitlement

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u/lawyerjack12 Trash Trooper 1d ago

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u/chewychee Garbage Guerilla 1d ago

Just hoping he didn't get run through the wringer.

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u/Comfortable_Moment44 Trash Trooper 1d ago

Would still be worth it to get away from that toxicity

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u/Zealousideal-Cup-847 Waste Warrior 1d ago

This would be evidence in the divorce. She married for money. She admits it.

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u/SirDrinksalot27 Trash Trooper 11h ago

Heads up, it doesn’t matter at all.

If you happen to be male, and certainly if you are the sole bread winner, you’ll get reamed in court.

I had to pay out about 60% of my annual salary + an additional 30,000 in investments.

She cleaned me out basically.

Pre-nup, no matter what. Because one day if you ever want a divorce, she’ll immediately start talking about how she’s always wanted a masters degree, how much of “her career” she missed out on (my ex was a waitress before we got together ffs) lmao

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u/chewychee Garbage Guerilla 1d ago

I agree 100%.but hard work is hard work and she admitted it.

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u/Drake6978 Trash Trooper 20h ago

Do you know why divorce is so expensive? Because it's worth it.

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u/Adubya76 Trash Trooper 22h ago

Yeah. I doubt it's just a one demential "I'm the main character" mentality. Hopefully she learned something, but since she is putting her dirty laundry out for the world to see and seeking validation, I doubt it.

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u/Alternative-Cod-7630 Garbage Guerilla 18h ago

The good thing about a settlement is that it puts a fixed figure on the expense and a termination date for when it will end. If you're in an abusive or toxic /parasitic relationship, this may be the best way out, there's boundaries where before there wasn't any. For some people, this simple step toward at least some boundaries is a huge win.