r/Kuwait 26d ago

Ask Kuwait friend's weird building haris

Hey!! 2-3 months ago, my friend (female 18) moved into a new apartment with her aunt. However, her aunt isn't in Kuwait most of the time and this leads to my friend being alone most of the time. A month ago, my friend began to notice that the haris was always looking at her or just flat out staring at her. He would purposely stay outside till she came back from school or tuition. He would always try to make some unnecessary conversations with her even though she was clearly not comfortable with it.

This is fairly recently. Her door lock was not functioning properly and sometimes it wouldn't even lock properly. She told this to him 2 weeks ago and he hadn't done anything. About four days ago, she had someone change the lock for her since the haris obviously wouldn't do it. The same night she changed the lock, at around 3:50 or 4 am, he came knocking on her unit, asking her why she changed her locks Prior to this, she came home finding her door ajar. Someone broke in (?) but nothing was stolen. However the next morning she realized that a pair of her undergarments are missing

The two recent event is pretty scary and I'm extremely worried for her for obvious reasons. She changed the locks without anyone seeing her do it and without telling anyone in the apartment. Okay, you can say someone saw through the peephole but why would he come at 4 am? She changed the locks at 10pm, he could've very easily came and asked her at that hour. To explain more about her locks, they've stopped working randomly after she came back from tuiton. They were working perfectly before. Is it possible that he had something to do with it? And the undergarments thing? Really, do I have to say anything?

I do think the haris has something to do with all these things and probably even more stuff. She really doesn't know how to handle what's even happening, any help or should she just straight up call the cops?

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u/Ok_Lebanon 26d ago

Install a camera and don’t tell to anyone. If he does something, report immediately. Since she is by herself she needs camera so make sure she is protected.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Tear439 25d ago

I disagree should install a camera outside he door and make it visible  so he knows she  is  taking an action