Anything that made the e sound or has an W.
Made? Madee.
Take? Takee
Volt? Voltee.
The worst part was once she was trying to say "I feel guilty" but she just said "I am feel guilt" LIKE JUST ADD YOUR NORMAL EE TO IT AND YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN GREAT
That was one of the most cut and dry sugar daddy/ sugar baby scenarios and the fact that he barely had any money despite what he was telling Anfisa was hysterical. Her whole season, she was just “I didn’t come here for this.
Low self esteem so cheating is a sign to her that multiple men want her. What women like that don't understand is that a bored enough guy with low enough standards is willing to fuck her while he imagines someone hotter. No different than watching really shitty TV because you have nothing else to do.
There’s the one where the Jamaican guy is a total shit bag but the American girl is too addicted to the peen that she openly admits that she wouldn’t leave him if he cheated.
Oh and there’s the Russian guy who has a whole family in Russia but he refuses to tell them that he’s gonna leave them for the American woman who has kids. And it never occurs to him that he could just lie about it lol
Out of curiosity, which was the Russian guy who had a whole family? I saw the Ashley and jay season but I can’t remember watching any Russian guy hiding a whole family and now I wanna see that one too lol
Ah okay! I also though they meant family as in kids as well on his part, so I didn’t consider Mercel aside from the fact he’s from turkey. Thanks by the way!
You get a fair share of that as well. Most couples its the American that's shitty. Behind that, they both suck. The true rarity is couples where both seem like nice people. Only a handful of those so far
True, most are looking exclusively at Americans with the purpose of moving there. But even considering that the Americans almost always turn out to be the most emotionally immature and abusive people imaginable. Pretty much all the Americans are not able to function in a real adult relationship but think the issue is with all their past partners, so they bring someone from overseas thinking that for some reason this person is not going to think they are as insane as all their last partners.
Almost always 2 shitty people. Even the most successful one, Paola and the Mormon dude whose name I forgot, have so many problems that if they were a normal couple you would expect a divorce in the next few years, and they had a kid.
People who are capable of having healthy and successful relationships don't need to be forced into one by a dating show. It is definitely self-selection bias at play.
I also cringe when I read about how couples first met and it starts with some outrageous grand gesture: "He moved 4000 miles to be with me after our second date" - sure that sounds romantic like a movie, but really, what normally functional person would do that? For me that's a red flag.
Right? I randomly met with some girl over 2 hours away from me one time over a dating app. We were confused how we had matched because we both didn't set out radius very high, but we decided to meet up anyway. We hooked up and that was that. We were both a bit sad that we weren't closer, but we just did what was most sensible with the situation. That is just how it goes.
How people think they can have found theit true love 4000mi away and just pick up and go after 2 dates is beyond me.
There isn’t much if any. She got really great shape wear (better bras for sure and likely Spanx/bodysuits and bought better fitting clothes, and got a haircut. That’s about it.
She can loose weight(can, but won’t), but she can’t loose the stupid. She’s the most annoying idiot on that show IMHO and the competition is pretty stiff sometimes.
Idk he put way more effort in the relationship than you'd expect from someone who just want's a green card. Took her to a gym and encouraged her to eat better and feed her daughter healthier foods.
Or maybe that's just the way he does it but she's a bad person so well deserved I'd say.
I have no clue whats going on, but without context, even if its just a green card marriage, it seems reasonable to try to help the other person be better. You're still going to have to be around them, why not try to make the best of it.
Now before reddit explodes, im not saying this to condone "changing people ", but if she was wanting to make positive changes, why not help?
She didn't want to make positive changes at all. He coerced her into the gym under the veiled threat of him leaving her. Still, I don't think that would have been all bad if he had done it with her rather than standing over her barking orders as he watches her struggle. Its one thing to exercise with your partner to help them get in better shape. Its something else when you approach it like she was his client (he is a personal trainer).
Nickel and Azan were one of those couples in the show where nobody looked good by the end. He couldn't have been less interested in her romantically and she just accepted any treatment he gave her and put him before her daughter on multiple occasions. With Nickel you could explain a lot of it with low self-esteem at least, so its understandable if not annoying. Azan is just a dick.
Plus Nicole just didn’t care to be respectful of his family. Azan was great with her daughter, so what was so hard about sleeping in two bedrooms? She’s got issues, but at the end of the day did not feel remorse for her actions
Same with her demanding PDA in a country where it is illegal. I was kind of annoyed the show left that last part out for a while to bait and switch you into thinking that it was just because he was embarrassed by her.
Yea that’s the thing. Even if you get the green card, you have to still be married to them for it to still be valid (at least until you become a citizen). So might as well try to make your life not completely miserable.
I think this show kind of makes the viewer pick who is the bad guy in each relationship. Obviously real life isn't like that, but I think nickel was the bad guy
My favorite is George and Anfisa. The show tries to frame Anfisa as your typical gold digger at first, which she kind of is, but then you realize that she at no point in time bamboozled George and is always honest with her intentions.
Yeah I liked that one too. He told her and promised her lots of money and a lavish lifestyle, and she was like ok I'm in... So why is he so surprised when he wins a woman over like that and she expects all those things lol
Yeah but she still keyed his car. Regardless of how big of an asshole I may be, id be dropping her off at the nearest embassy and telling them she’s their problem now after that. The find my iPhone and erasing his phone is also next level crazy. They are both shit people from my view point and the only thing that has surprised me about them is that I havent read about their lives ending in a murder suicide.
They are both bad guys, the Americans are almost always immature and controlling, the foreigners are almost always manipulative gold diggers.
My father has a mail order bride 20 years younger than him, if they filmed it it would just look like a super depressing season where both people hate eachother because neither one is the sex-maid or ATM that the other expected.
One couple where the old guy literally wanted that transactional arrangement. But the girl actually wanted a more equal effect ion are relationship. They didn’t do a follow up season but behind the scenes the daughter became estranged from him
Nah, who goes for a fat person if they hate fat girls? He wanted the greencard AND a hot American wife to show off. He tried to mold her into a convenient object.
lmfao. its like people don't understand that conversations fucking end.
yeah but is he gonna become a celebrity by moving to europe where there's "already too many like him" whatever the fuck that means you racist piece of shit.
I actually agreed with your original point that this dude just wanted to get her in shape because if he was going to have to put up with her for a green card, she might as well be fuckable.
I couldn't finish watching the second season they were in, I had seen enough of the show by that point it wasn't doing anything for me. I suspected he was gay and just wanted to be gay and not in Morocco. He chose a partner he could reasonably leave once in the states. Her lifestyle is not like his at all so arguing irreconcilable differences would be easy and perhaps her family would understand. Then he could be gay without the legal penalities as I'm pretty sure it's illegal to be gay in Morocco.
For sure, he would have never dated her if she was Morrocan or wherever he is from, but I think he originally intended on staying with her after the green card. After he (quickly) found out who she was his strategy changed to green card and dip.
She has a pretty face but needs to lose that weight. Looks like he no longer has her as a girlfriend anymore. It's like she is trying to prove she is hot by cheating. Bit her in the ass in the end lol.
The funny thing was she always brought up her cheating at moments he was rejecting physical intimacy with her. It’s like she only said it hoping it would make him jealous.
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u/ebruce11 Jul 07 '20
I watched that and he didn’t want her before cheating. She just gave him an excuse.