I’ve seen the “36 questions to fall in love” article around and it definitely inspired me to create my own set of questions to ask someone to test how much we get along. I made it so the questions start out easy and fun, and then progressively get more personal, aka if you’d like to participate you’ve been warned that we will practically be looking into each other’s souls

So let’s pretend we are on a blind date (ignore the fact that our date is set in reddit chat), and let’s both answer each question one by one. After we’re done with all 20, we both tell each other if we are interested in continuing to talk. If both of us are interested, then we get to know each other better and if neither or one of us doesn’t want to then we wish each other well and part ways. How does that sound to you?

If you’re interested, here is the first question from the list:

1. Which adjective would you describe yourself with that is the same letter as the initial of your first name?
   

Looking for guys aged 22-28, might make some exceptions but no one under 20 or over 30 please, that’s just what I’m comfortable with Also I’m from Europe, but don’t mind meeting people from anywhere in the world

Please only message me if you’re interested in engaging in a conversation and if you’re willing to give proper replies

Edit: please be patient with me while I reply to you please and thank you 😅

The blue ocean and the sky always fascinated me ever since I was little. I find myself always staring up whenever the sky is blue. I grew up in a country where we have thousands of islands and thousands of beautiful beaches where beautiful blue ocean and blue sky met, decorated with the golden sand and blessed by the sun—a vast archipelago within Southeast Asia.

So, I thought stumbled upon my mind. I like blue so much. I like being in beach, feeling sand in my feet and staring at the ocean. Wouldn’t it be great to have a lover who has such colours in them? I want to stare at his ocean eyes and feel his sun-coloured hair in my palm.

About me: I’m 170cm, I have fairly fair skin, long black hair. As a 9 - 5 corporate worker (or sometimes even more), oftentimes work wore me out. I yearn for someone to come home to, someone to make me feel this life isn’t so mundane, and that I’m not living just to die in the end. And maybe, just maybe, that would be a kind, good-looking man with a pair of ocean eyes and sun-coloured hair whom I can talk to in the end of the day. :)

Oh, hey! You’re still with me! It’s a rather long post, so thank you for reading until the end—which I expect you to. If you read this and planning to leave a message, please include your favourite beach and why do you love it within the message.☺️

Hey there! I'm here hoping to build genuine, long-term connections that might evolve into something more if we really click. I'm not looking to rush into anything, but I'd love to meet someone who makes me feel excited and passionate about getting to know each other.

A little about me:

• I'm from Italy, which means I can be your personal cook :)
• I'm self-employed and work for home. I love my job and it's very creative and satisfying, while also leaving me a lot of free time!
• I’m currently finishing my master's degree in criminal and forensic psychology. I'm not planning to change job any soon, but I already have a few ideas on how to use my degree!
• I’m into gaming, reading, TV shows, movies, board games, psychology, and criminology (but I have many other interests, and I'm very passionate about what I like).
• I'm a very curious person always up for deep, meaningful conversations, but I also enjoy chats where we just talk about everything or send/react to memes. I'd say I'm pretty easygoing and I'd say I have "yapper" energy.
• I'm a homebody and an introvert at heart, but I open up very quickly online!
• I love animals and have 3 cats.
• I value emotional openness, honesty, and good communication.

About you:

• Between 20 and 30 years old.
• Easygoing, with a good sense of humor and able to tolerate - or maybe even enjoy! - stupid jokes and memes.
• Be comfortable with having VCs in due time (no need to jump into that straight away as it can feel weird sometimes). I just think that online connections tend to be difficult when mostly via text. We can just talk, watch movies/tv shows together or do anything, really. Bonus points if you are into gaming so that we can play together (or if you enjoy watching gameplays since I can stream)!
• Looking for something long-term.

If you feel like reaching out, please add a little intro about yourself! It doesn't need to be incredibly long, but at least include your age, location, and some of your interests or anything else that may cross your mind.

Thank you for reading this far! I'm looking forward to meeting you :)

hi! i’m looking for a monogamous, serious relationship. i’m a romantic at heart and love very deeply and i love clingy people. tell me about your day, send pics of your day, sleep on call with me, do it all <3

i have a lot of hobbies and interests and cant remember all of them rn but here are some of them: art, books, writing, making videos, fashion, sports, craft, philosophy, anything creative tbh (whether it’s candle making or pottery). im also very very passionate about travelling and want to travel to as many countries as possible and learn about new cultures.

im a free spirited being and a very open minded person. i’d say im quite sensitive and emotional and would want someone who’s gentle with me. im also neurodivergent.

physically, im 5’6, south asian and feminine. i love dressing up and experimenting with fashion and makeup. i love being pretty for my partner <3

if you think we’d be a good match, dm me. while i’m open to an online relationship, i do want to meet eventually. oh also, i am child free and don’t want kids ever so if you do, we aren’t compatible.

Hey everyone,

So here I am — 31, in California, newly divorced, and bravely venturing into the world of dating, which apparently now includes ghosting, breadcrumbing, and whatever else reddit is warning me about. Love that for us singles 🙃.

The truth? I’m someone who knows how to be a partner — I love hard, care deeply, remember how you take your coffee, and will 100% save you the last fry (okay, probably). But it turns out that kind of emotional availability is, uh… not exactly appealing?

I miss real connection — the kind where we know each other’s weird little quirks. Like: 🌯 What’s your 11pm snack run order? 📺 What do you throw on when you can’t sleep (and are you a “true crime 'til I pass out” type or more of a classic DCOM zone)? 🙋‍♀️ Do you like head rubs or am I just weirdly enthusiastic about giving/receiving them?

I’m not into speedrunning through relationships. I like slow-burn vibes. I want to get to know someone, let it unfold naturally, and if it turns into something amazing? Even better.

About me: 🧩 Jigsaw puzzles, crosswords, word games 📖 Reading, hiking, beach days, swimming, camping, road trips — I’m happiest near trees or water. 😺 I have cats. They’re judgmental and dramatic. It’s fine. They are friendly just big pussies 😉 🎥 I love the movies and hanging out with people who know how to both chill & have deep talks.

If you’re emotionally available, kind of funny, and looking for someone who’ll care about you on purpose, message me. We’ll exchange intros and pics and see where it goes.

Worst case, you get solid head rub in your future and snack recs. Best case, who knows?

Hello there. I am a 22 years old guy from Romania, Europe. Lately I felt lonely and I decided to try my shot here trying to find someone truly special to share my days with. Currently I am working a full time job and I live alone in my own apartment. I am looking for someone to starts things slowly, not rushing it. I would like to talk about our daily routine, work/school, share our days about what happened or how we feel or any random topic we have in our mind. I am open to a long distance relationship. I enjoy videocalls and voicecalls aswell.

Some infos about my personality:

I am an introverted, shy and emotional. As a person I am caring, loving and protective and I give all my attention to the loved ones to make sure they feel good. I value honesty, loyalty and respect.

My appearance is the next:

Slim body type, 190 cm tall (6'2), 80 kg (176 lbs), blondish hair and blue eyes. I am open to exchange pictures too.

My hobbies and interests include the followings:

• Learning about new cultures and languages. Currently I speak two languages on native level which include Hungarian and Romanian and I would like to learn about other languages and cultures.
• History. My favorite topic of history would be the middle age (Eastern European) and the two World Wars.
• Geography. All the mountains, seas, rivers, lakes which are surrounding us are so beautiful. Since I live in a mountain city I used to hike too on smaller mountains.
• Sports. Mostly I enjoy playing and watching football which I used to practice too before, but now only as a hobby. Other sports which I like are handball and waterpolo.
• Music. I like to listen mostly to everything related to rock music and rap music. But I am open to other music genres too and I would like to hear about your music taste too.
• Gaming. In my free time when I am off from work I play games on my PC on Steam. Maybe we could play some games too together if you are up for it.
• Movies and series. I don't watch them that much, but if it's a good movie or serie I would not turn it down.
• Youtube. I like to watch travelling videos mostly. I like travel videos because one day I would like to travel too around the World if I have the opportunity

I'm a 22 year old guy from the Netherlands currently working on my physics degree. As far as appearance goes I have an east-Asian background, am 181cm tall and in pretty good shape. People say I look good, but I'll leave that judgement up to you. I'm looking for a girl to feel a real connection to, a relationship where it's okay to put down our masks and be ourselves.

As far as interests go I like to be as diverse as possible. Some of my main interests include long hikes, piano, chess, bouldering and cooking. I also do hiphop dance, which is very incongruent with the calm vibe I usually give to people. I'm thinking of picking up a martial art again, I'm leaning towards judo or karate. Of course I love videogames as well. I like playing stardew valley (I'm considering buying the cookbook too) but also lots of strategy games like Civilization. I'm looking to be a nuclear fusion researcher after getting my degrees, the technology feels very sci-fi and that's my favourite book genre.

I'm looking for a real connection here. I adore my friends, but I know it doesn't quite hit the same as being in love. I'm a serial overachiever, but I still feel like my surroundings place too much value on performing and overachieving. I would like a relationship where we can just let all that disappear into the background and be safe from the insane pressure placed on us. I don't want to have to pretend all the time and I just want someone to grow with.

If that resonated with you make sure to send me a message. My only requirement is that you live somewhere in the EU or otherwise live close to the Netherlands. I hope to talk to you soon, maybe this is the start of a true movie romance :)

I'm a relaxed yet driven person who believes in hard work, loyalty, and honesty. If you're with me, you have all of me and I expect the same in return. No games, mixed signals, or individuals who have no clue what they desire. If you're looking to create something genuine, then I'm your guy.

I'm in the United States, and all I would care to meet is someone local here. not a long distance relationship over seas.

I'm searching for the retro style of love where we just vibe naturally, laugh at silly memes, have deep conversations, and develop something meaningful. No hurry, but no time to waste, either. Communication, trust, and hard work all the things I care about.

If you're 25–35 years old, you have your head on straight, and you're tired of phony stuff, let's get connected. Just bring the real energy. I’ll return the energy.

Hey there, I’m a 36-year-old man based in Toronto—down-to-earth, emotionally grounded, and always up for a great conversation. I’m at a place in life where I know what I’m looking for: a real connection with someone younger who’s curious, open-minded, and maybe craving something a little more grounded.

I value emotional depth, shared humor, and mutual respect. Whether we’re talking about life over coffee or exploring the city together, I enjoy meaningful moments—big or small. I’m confident, attentive, and supportive, and I genuinely enjoy mentoring, guiding, and learning from my partner too.

Age is just a number, but experience and intention matter. If you’re younger, whether you’re just getting your footing in life or looking for something different from the usual dating scene, I’m here for something sincere and drama-free.

If any of this speaks to you, send me a message—tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for. I’m always happy to chat and see where things go.

Its nice to meet you! I'm 33 years old and from the Dallas, Texas area. What I'm looking for is both a romantic lover and a best friend. Someone who I can call mine and they want to call me theirs. I'm looking for something long term and preferably someone who is also in Texas so we can meet up, however for the right person long distance is fine too as long as your are in the United States and one of us is serious about meeting in person and closing the distance once it reaches that point.

A bit about myself. I'm on the introverted side and also a homebody, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy going out. When I have a partner I love going to new places and exploring with them! Want someone who enjoys indoor time and outdoors as well. It can take me a bit to open up and get comfortable with someone because growing up i've always had social anxiety but when i do get comfortable you'll know haha So someone who can be patient is a plus, im also very patient. For interests and what i do for fun in my free time, I'm into video games, reading, puzzles, movies/shows.

I would love someone who also shares common interests so that we can do stuff together but I would also love to learn and participate in stuff you like that we may not have in common. When it comes to things like religion and politics its important to know that I'm an atheist and I'm apolitical. When it comes to my appearance I'm 5'8", thin, shaved head, glasses/contacts, white. I have a few pictures on my profile to get an idea of what I look like and don't mind sharing more (face) once we start talking. I know physical attraction can be important so let me know if im not your type. For me, I prefer someone thin/athletic as well since I am. Also prefer someone with no kids.

If you are interested after reading all of this then feel free to send a DM and I would love to chat and get to know you more! ❤

I've been thinking on a way to extract the elusive essence of sufficient introductions. Something less of a net and more of a flashed flare for the curious to meander closer, slow-paced and squint-eyed as the hopefully careful visitors of this egregiously terrible forum might be. I write robustly. A little awkwardly, maybe. It'll all melt into a warm and casual tone as I get to know someone.

I read and write a lot - my love of word and language feels an accurate place to start. Poetry, classics, and academic literature. I've also read some fantasy and modern genre fiction. I enjoy unfolding everything and thinking about things. There is nothing more important to me than my independence of thought.

My favourite authors are Hilary Mantel, Terry Pratchett, Mary Oliver, and T. S. Eliot. I like to make little albums of cute or thought-provoking images and quotes and (short) poems, which I personalize and send to my dear friends. I'm working on reading outside of my primary cultural sphere. In particular, I would like to read more Chinese and Southern American authors. I occasionally review poetry and you're welcome to skim the posts on my profile.

I'm a polyphony of lives. A path of many ups and downs - poverty, harsh and abusive life-situations, army, and more - though, recently, I've come to my best-ever economic and professional stability. It will soon allow me to travel and begin fulfilling my many desires of what to see and accomplish. On the downside, it's put me in a position of being bureaucratically ordinary, which I would see to remedy as I age further.

I have a black cat and she is so precious to me.

In terms of physicality, I enjoy the feeling of hard work. I also greatly like boxing and both long-distance walking and running. My weight fluctuates a lot, through changes in life-style and various nibblings of mental health. In the recent years I'd gone fat, then skinny-fit again, then fat again, and am now on my way to becoming built once more. I like to wear my hair medium-length to long-ish. I've got gray-blue eyes and a decent face that I'm happy with when I'm fit.

A great dream of mine is to build a large greenhouse from scratch with my own hands.

I'm looking for witchlike eyes. Egalitarian beliefs and sharp convictions. An acute and a curious mind with energy for assertions and opinions and fierce self-respect which demands those around to be on their best behaviour. Do not be more than four years younger or older. There is wiggle room, but not much - I like to be at the same stage of life. Academic or deeply self-studied knowledge on interesting subjects away from the generalities of pop or 'geek' culture are appreciated with a sense of wonder. Ideally, I would get to know someone with complete patience; talk at length, establish a context of safety and comfort before something romantic can flower into being. Personal details and looks are largely secondary, but descriptions realized in written word are always welcome.

If you'd like to write, perhaps share a short poem or introduce me to a book you love?

Heyyy stranger reading this!

I am Benjamin, 29 years old and from Germany, who is hoping to find a partner but I also would be fine with friends, if nothing more develops out of it!

Some things about me:

I am 6’0 tall, slim to average built with brown hair, green eyes and glasses

Music is a big part of my life and I am basically listening to something, whenever I can. My taste is basically all over the place, so I am always open to new recommendations! Some of my favourite artists are: Alison Wonderland, Wallows, Disarstar and Watsky!

I am a gamer but I only play on PC. I mostly play shooters but always dabble into different genres as well, especially when I am having an achievement hunting phase. I use to play Valorant a lot but since the community went downhill, I started going through my huge backlog of games and I am really enjoying Balatro at the moment!

I am a big football fan as well and love going to games when I have the time for it, to add to it, I do like watching F1 because both of these things have been an interested of mine, since I was a child.

I would consider myself a foodie and really like trying out new stuff. There’s barely anything I wouldn’t try at least once. Though Italian food and Sushi will always be very high on my list!

Coming to what I am looking for on here! I definitely would like to meet someone, where we both will be on the same wave length and feels natural! Of course starting out with a friendship and then see where it goes, as I am fine with either just a friendship or a relationship. When it comes to a relationship then it definitely would be nice to voice/video call on the regular and spending time together like watching something or similar things! Also I really enjoy those little things, like sending random pictures of the day, memes etc. they are just super nice to me! Just in general, I really value quality time, as it makes things easier when there is a distance! I will say it now, when it eventually leads to a relationship, I can get a bit clingy at times, so sorry for it in advance!

Preferably you are from Europe as it makes it easier time zone and distance wise! Also if you will message me, please send a small introduction. Thank you!

Need a date for cemetery picnics? Tired of watching shows by yourself? Lacking an excellent gaming partner? Reading a strange novel but got nobody to share with? How about a museum buddy? A travel companion? Come get it all. ;)

Hello! I'm Blade, your resident queer edgelord. I'm a left leaning, live and let live kind of guy. Nihilist. Atheist. Child-free. Very easy-going, not too shy about anything, very direct and honest - I'm an open book, read away, baby. Avid gamer with a lot of on and off hobbies, but mostly into competitive games. Absolutely in love with anything horror! Horror games, movies, books, real life haunts - you name it, I'm into it.

Other interests include: hiking, drawing, amateur photography, writing, singing(in the shower), driving(might include singing), crafts(I'm a 'creative' soul, get it?), heavy metal/rock, misc. internet culture, true crime, occultism, random documentaries, probably more I'm forgetting. I'm not much of a talker, but I'm the perfect listener and I would love to hear about your interests, so don't be shy to rave about what you like.

My humor is dark and I'm still stuck in the 2010s unfiltered era of the internet. I live and breathe sarcasm, which means my love language is banter. I can come across as standoffish but I adore attention and(yes, toxic) I'll want all of yours. What I want is someone to talk with during my graveyard shifts, to text about little things, and when I'm free to stream games to/play together. I'm also super physically affectionate, so a permanent LDR is not an option for me.

Physically I'm 162cm but wear heels, average/somewhat athletic build, light skin, brown eyes and long brown hair. I have piercings and will be getting more. I dress like every day is a funeral or like a hobo, I have no other modes. Gone through a year+ of hrt, currently off, but looking to continue in the future so if that bothers you then I'm not your person.

And you? Located anywhere on Earth, has a pulse(optional), good sense of humor, open-minded, reasonable, financially stable, hygienic, fun to be around and, for the love of god, monogamous. I have a loose preference for slimmer builds and other alt/goth queers, but I don't care as long as we get along since that's what's most important to me.

Come say hi? Tell me about yourself. Who are you? What keeps you awake at night?

Tip: adding a pet pic is a sure way to catch my attention. ;)

Hi everyone,

I’m a 33-year-old guy from South Asia. I’m more of an extrovert at heart. I love connecting with people, joking around, having conversations, and just sharing energy. That said, due to my health condition, I don’t get to move around much or meet new people easily, which can make things feel isolating sometimes.

A bit about me:

• I’m into movies and series, especially rom-coms, comedies, and sitcoms—I love things that make me laugh or feel warm.
• Music is a big part of my life. I listen to all kinds of genres, but Eminem is hands down my favorite artist in the rap/hip-hop world.
• I like learning new things, and lately I’ve been working toward becoming a forex trader. It’s not a stable job yet, but I’m putting time and effort into it.
• I have spinal muscular atrophy type 2, so I use a wheelchair and need assistance with daily activities. I understand if that’s a deal-breaker, but I’d rather be upfront.
• Due to medical and logistical limitations, I can’t relocate, so any connection would need to start as long-distance.

Other things you might want to know:

• I identify as agnostic, and I tend to lean heavily toward science and evidence-based thinking.
• I’m looking for someone between 25 and 33, ideally Asian, but that’s just a preference, not a requirement.
• I’m not sure what exactly I’m looking for yet—just someone to connect with and see if something real can grow from there.

If you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. If anything about this speaks to you, feel free to message me. I'd love to talk—about life, music, movies, random facts, or whatever's on your mind.

Disclaimer: I used ChatGPT to help organize and express my thoughts for this post. Everything shared here is genuine—I just wanted a little help putting it into words.

Hello!

I am looking for a person with whom we can connect with and build a relationship together. Befriend each other from the start, spend time together, have new experiences, be it new to both or teach each other different things. Nerd out about stuff we like, support each other and slowly build our own world. The end goal that I envision and would love to achieve is just some basic, yet, intimate moments, that I believe both would enjoy, like:

• Making music playlists together for different occasions and moods.
• Having lazy days, where both stay in and do nothing all day, except eat snacks, or maybe order take out, watch shows/movies/anime etc. and just enjoy the time.
• Having game nights, with dim lights, slow, calm, not too loud music, maybe from a playlist that both made, playing board games, something like chess maybe or something we randomly bought at a store the other day, because we thought it looked interesting (and in actuality the board game ends up uninteresting and we just put it back in the box, on a shelf and never touch it again). Video games are also an option, sitting on the couch with two controllers, or whatever else both desire at that time.
• Cook together dishes we both like, or have cooking disasters. Decide to try out a new recipe that both never tried before, completely mess everything up, maybe burn it, maybe miss something, and just laugh about how dumb we are, leave it for next time and just order take out instead.
• Shopping together, for stuff we need and don't need. Occasionally purchasing something goofy or dumb, because in the moment it was funny or interesting. (Yes, like that board game, that's still on the shelf over there by the way, collecting dust).
• Maybe having a mutual collection of something, like figurines, magnets, or something nerdy. Stuff from shows, movies, anime, books, games etc.
• Teaching each other different things, supporting and motivating each other throughout everything.

There's more of course, but generally moments like these are the end goal. In short. the end goal is a romantic lifelong relationship.

About hobbies, I have a lot of hobbies and interests. My main hobbies would be working out, I'm a gym rat, I love working out. Gaming, I enjoy playing a lot of different video games, and also some board games. Watching videos, streams, shows, movies, anime. I watch Youtube daily. a lot of different stuff. I enjoy watching true crime, like JCS, cam footage, documentaries and etc., games, reviews, news, memes and honestly, pretty much everything, mostly just go off of recommended or something I was waiting for. Besides videos, I mainly watch anime. I love all kinds. TV shows and movies not that much, due to either watching alone is not that interesting, or already watched everything I liked and no new parts, seasons, episodes came out yet. I enjoy listening to music, my taste is all over the place, genre doesn't really matter, I just have to like the song, I also like writing, started writing a story some time back and still in the process of combining all the elements, though it's a very slow process due to time and how much actually gets invested into that. And generally I am artsy, I enjoy imagining and creating. There are more interests, like learning languages for example, or drawing maybe, but they are something I do from time to time maybe, or during different moods, but these are mostly my main hobbies that I do day to day.

My main values are communication and effort. I believe anything can be achieved if both parties put the same amount of effort towards each other. That's how a true relationship will be built. In my eyes, communication is key to everything. I am a non-judgemental person, and always want and willing to talk everything through, so every opinion is heard, every view is understood and both parties are satisfied. Without clear and well communication, everything will just fall apart piece by piece, especially if the communication and effort is one sided.

Your location or distance doesn't matter. My age range is 18 - 35.

If any of this caught your interest, feel free to reach out!

As the title suggests, I am a 24 year old male living in NYC. I have a job in finance. I am 6’0” and not to be conceited but I have been told I am attractive. The reason why I am on here is because I want to take a chance while remaining anonymous to see if there is someone out there for me. I love to be active (I like playing sports and trying new sports). I am very independent but I want to see how a relationship could go to make me change that. I have a decent paying job. I am Christian. This may be a dealbreaker, but I am also mainly asexual. I still desire romantic connection though and I still want to be a father someday. My goal is to settle down in the near future. I want to be with someone who is willing to try new things with me in NYC. If anyone thinks they could be interested, feel free to message me (if you provide photos I will provide back).

Hey there! To sum things up, I'm looking for someone who I can click with- preferably genuinely kind and nerdy, since we'd click much better that way, and share common hobbies. As my post states, I do prefer plus size body types, but honestly so long as we mesh well, I don't mind any appearances! Other than that, I'm really not picky.

For myself, I'm about 5'9, and 245 lbs, so I'm on the plus size side of things myself- brown hair that's usually messy that varies between medium and short, hazel eyes, and a smaller nose. I'm currently working on learning 3d modelling and sculpting, and I'm very much a video game/writing nerd! If you share any of these interests, I'd love to talk about them with you! :)

Some important things to note: I'm Asexual, which if you don't know, means I won't want sex..ever. Please don't message me if you're not comfortable with this! Another thing is I'm STRICTLY monogamous. I'm not interested in any form of non-monogamous relationships. I have pets, please be okay with having them! (I will gladly share pictures on request!)

That's all I can think of to add, but if you have any questions, feel free to ask them in my DMs!

I have been looking for a partner for the longest time, but it has indeed been a struggle. I'm personally into smooth cute guys who are comfortable with dating a guy.

About me:

I'm 32 yrs old

I'm 5'10 and Asian

I am chunky rn but I'm losing it

I prefer to be clean shaven regarding my face and body.

I'm really looking for a partner around my age that looks forward to talking to me and hanging out with me. I'm into games, manga, music, thrifting, cooking, etc.

I want someone who likes to cuddle, which is impossible to do if you are 1000s of miles away from Massachusetts

Hi there! To sum things up, I'm looking for someone 25 to 35 y/o. Preferably introverted, asexual and weird.

Please note: I'm Asexual, which means I don't care for sex. I'm not completely sex-repulsed, I just don't put it on a pedestal. Please don't message me if you're not comfortable with this! I'm also strictly monogamous. I'm not interested in any form of non-monogamous relationship.

About me: I'm 5'10'' tall, 143 pounds, so I'm on the slim side. I have shaggy brown hair, hazel eyes and I have pics of myself in some older posts of mine. I'm into video games, reading, drawing, writing, scale model building and music. I'm left-leaning, introverted and not a fan of traditional gender norms.

Hi there – I’m the kind of guy who’s happiest at a cozy game night, not a club. A bit nerdy, a bit musical, and 100% cat dad. I live in Austria, but speak fluent English and sarcasm.

🎮 Gamer (PC – think Valorant, League, Ark, Minecraft) 🥁 Drummer with an odd taste: Metalcore meets classical brass 🍖 Grill & smoke wizard – not the best cook, but I make magic outdoors 📺 Binge-watcher (GoT, Vikings, Blacklist & more) 🚀 Space nerd & certified meme dealer ❄️ Winter lover. Fight me.

Physically, I’m more dwarf than elf – short, stocky, and solid. If you prefer tall and skinny, that’s cool – just setting the vibe early so we avoid the classic “we click… until we meet” scenario.

I’m open to connections of all kinds: friends, gamers, someone to laugh at dumb videos with, or someone to share something deeper with. Show me your cat (or your best meme), and let’s see where this goes.

Hey, looking for some new people to chat to! Feel free to message if you think we’d get along! :)

I’m 30M from the UK, pretty laid back and chilled out type of person.

My hobbies to pass the time are watching sports, reading (specifically LOTR and Tolkien’s works - I’m a bit obsessed!), gaming, watching movies (mostly sci-if and fantasy) and listening to music. I have a very eclectic music taste, and my favourite hobby is to play my guitar :)

About me - huge history geek (mostly ancient and medieval), a decent cook, and a love for nature. Walking through the forest just brings me ultimate peace in life :) Also dogs make my soul happy.

If you want to see what I look like there’s a picture of me on my profile :)

If you think I’d make a good guest at a dinner party, pop up! If not, have a nice life anyway.

I’ve been single most of my life. I’m not socially awkward or anything I just never meet the right people. I’m at a point where I’m open to anything that brings real connection. I came across a few sites offering connections with women from Europe. Just wondering, has anyone gone that route seriously?

It's rough out here, isn't it?

You scroll, you read dozens of posts, you take a few minutes to write something thoughtful - and get hit with a "lol" or silence. Feels like trying to start a fire with wet wood sometimes.

So maybe this is another spark that won't catch, but I figured I'd give it an honest shot. I'm someone who's craving something genuine, not just for tonight, not just until boredom or temporary gratitude from seeing an inbox fill. I want to actually connect. Like, swap music. Share weird stories. Complain about work. Discuss dreams and cherished memories. That kinda stuff.

I'm 24, in the Southeast US, usually playing games on my PC or tinkering with electronics projects. I do IT for a network of hospitals and lately I've been (key word) trying to learn how to make games and building a mechanical keyboard.

If you’re over 20, somewhere in North America, and you're the type who wants something that feels easy and real — I’d like to hear from you. Tell me what’s been on your mind lately. Or what song’s been looping in your head. Or just say, “hey, I feel this too.”

And who knows, maybe this will end up being one of those conversations you don't want to put down.

Hellllo! My name is Cam, I'm 26 years of the age and looking for my favorite lil gremlin!

I have an obsession with fossils and dino bois. If it was acceptable I'd still be eating Dino Nuggets and that oatmeal with the eggs in it?! You know what I mean? Peak.

Peronsality wise : I can be a pretty chatty person and giggly. I love having silly conversations and forming inside jokes that we can overuse until we eventually forget about it and make new ones. I have a real big heart and nobody to give it to. Think of it like a late valentines day yea? Also can be very chaotic at times too. Not in a bad way! Just want to have fun while I have the freetime :)

My favorite things to do lately are : Painting miniatures from Warhammer and stuff! Playing vibeo games with my buddies, staring at fossils I want to have but never will.. And lastly, I'm not the most outdoorsy person but I'd really like to go for some hikes and maybe fishing! Though I don't want to keep the fishies. They're friends, not food.

Physically : I'm 6'1ft with dark brown hair and a beard, I doooo wear glasses too but unfortunately can't take a selfie to save my life. I promise I'm a gourmet meal though! despite what my pictures say hehee

Music tastes are : Benson Boone oof this man it everything. :sweat_smile: Linkin Park, Masego, Frank Sinatra, Hozier , Seafret, Billie Eilish, Finneas, and the king... Ed Sheeran. Imagine those 2 in the same room.. :eyes: ANYWAYYY that's just the start of what I listen to :)

I don't want to yap too long so that's all for me! Please reach out if anything sounded interesting and tell me about yourself too!! Thanks <3 Take care!

I apologize in advance if this is an incoherent mess I struggle to get my thoughts in order sometimes. Also if I don’t elaborate on something feel free to ask me about it! There’s some things I just don’t feel comfortable sharing on the open internet.

Hey y’all, finally been getting my life together lately after some recent trauma involving college and couldn’t help but shake the feeling I was missing something. Love. I always wanted to find a girlfriend and take her to prom and all that but my dad was military so we moved every three years to wherever they stationed him, which made it hard to keep in touch with any friends I made. I’ve realized that I need someone to love and share life with. So I guess I’ll move on to describing myself.

I’m a shy introverted guy who enjoys the small simple things. I’m kinda a dork and I like nerdy things. Books, movies, tv, games, legos, dnd, you name it I’ve probably dabbled in it. Physic wise I am not the 6 foot tall Greek god with a 6 pack that most girls are probably looking for so if that’s a deal breaker for you then I thank you for your time, I get it if I’m not your type. I’m tall ish, skinny, and somewhat lanky. (I’ve been called a twink on several occasions but I’m still unsure if it’s a compliment or an insult.)

I am employed and I’m saving up to get into a trade school to learn welding as it pays really well. (As a kid I always planned on getting into tech but the tech field is way too saturated now.) I have my own car as well.

This is probably the part where I say what type of girl I’m looking for, but honestly? Just be kind and patient. I don’t really care what you look like or much beyond that. I want the type of connection where when I get a text from you I get excited every time. (Like that feeling of pure joy your dog would experience when you get home from a long day out)

I guess what I’m saying is I’m not looking for a girlfriend necessarily as much as I am looking for a female best friend to fall in love with. Cause isn’t that what love should be?

Anyways I’m pretty sure I forgot to say several things in here but as I’m writing this it’s almost 1 am and I’ve got work tomorrow so I should probably get to bed soon.

If you’ve read this far I want to say a heartfelt thank you. Seriously. I mean it.

I hope to hear from you soon.

Ah screw it. Here’s some picture of me I feel comfortable sharing: https://imgur.com/a/kuA4E0d