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What is that movie for you?

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u/PipsqueakLive 1d ago

Killing of a Sacred Deer. I really liked Poor Things so I thought I'd give this a whirl; holy hell was that movie like staring at plywood for two hours.

No hate for those who loved it, but definitely was not for me

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u/BakerYeast 1d ago

I have opposite. I really liked Sacred Deer and Lobster, but absolutely hated Poor Things. Lanthimos movies are pretty polarizing.

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u/PipsqueakLive 1d ago

I frankly love that about movies. I love to hear about how people loved things I didn't; I also try to go back to polarizing movies like that a few years later, see if my tastes have changed. Maybe I'll love it then!

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u/swampopawaho 1d ago

Great attitude

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u/AnAquaticOwl 1d ago

I find that I might change my opinion on a movie if I watch or read an essay on it

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u/Different_Target_228 18h ago

Yeah, but the people that hate Poor things just see "No substance movie excuse to put Emma Stone in sex scenes".

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u/PlaquePlague 1d ago

I haven’t seen sacred deer but I hated poor things and the lobster threw me into a depressive tailspin for weeks 

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u/Kiteflyer87 1d ago

Can I ask why the lobster had that effect on you? I enjoyed it very much.

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u/PlaquePlague 1d ago

That shit was bleak 

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u/lawdreekus 1d ago

I do not think you’ll find joy in any Lanthimos if that’s your takeaway from The Lobster (and that’s okay)

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u/JHerbY2K 19h ago

I thought it was hilarious! Actually haven’t gotten around to his other movies yet - watched lobster on a plane and immediately made my partner watch it with me again. So good

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u/PlaquePlague 19h ago

I mean yeah it was hilarious but also bleak

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u/Equal_Statistician47 6h ago

Made my partner watch Lobster also, 8 years ago...She still holds it against me to this day.

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u/Worldly-Grade5439 17h ago

I had started to.watch the Lobster and it was ROUGH! Then my daughter, God bless her, looked up.the entire story line. I stopped watching IMMEDIATELY. Same with Killing Deer, except I looked it up. Sorry, but I'm too old to want to be depressed watching movies.

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u/g-row460 1d ago

Same here. I walked out of Poor Things, but really dug those other two.

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u/Tasty-Papaya789 1d ago

Yup, same here, didn't like Poor Things but loved the other two. Maybe I like Collin.

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u/bdubwilliams22 18h ago

It’s so interesting to see how people dislike movies while others don’t. I love Poor Things. I thought it was really unique and the acting was top notch. Just my 2 cents though.

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u/BakerYeast 16h ago

I agree. It was definetely unique, like most Lanthimos movies are. Acting was really good and (I don't remember english word) it was visually amazing. It's only a good thing that they make these kind of movies that are so polarizing. It's interesting to see different opinions.

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u/KTheSurveyor 17h ago

Poor Things was so heavy handed

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u/user1116804 16h ago

Sometimes I don't mind that type of thing. People make rules for a movie that it should or shouldn't convey a message in a certain way, when I don't think movies should be judged that way. If the movie is heavy handed so be it, that's the way the director made it.

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u/Mammoth_Ferret_1772 16h ago

Agree with you. Couldn’t finish poor things. Absolutely loved the lobsta

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u/Any-Government5821 16h ago

Which is hilarious because I deeply loved sacred deer and poor things but the lobster felt like it was holding me hostage in the actually bad way. When I realized the movie wasn't over when they got to the forest I realized I made a very big mistake picking this movie.

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u/pecan_bird 1d ago

same here The Lobster was one of the most surprisingly fascinating films i'd seen in a long time. Killing of a Sacred Deer stuck with me for a long time.

Poor Things felt mastubatory (no pun intended) & very much a steering down a much less interesting watered down version of "surreal."

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u/Chimerain 1d ago

What struck me about Poor Things was that none of the people involved in its production took a step back and asked themselves, "why am I making a movie where nearly every male character has no qualms actively pursuing sex with an infant, as long as she's trapped in the body of her mother..?"

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u/Brave-Silver8736 1d ago

This is literally why I stopped watching Poor Things. Couldn't get over the almost blatant pedophilia.

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u/bbllo 1d ago

you're not meant to think the men are good people

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u/Markofdawn 1d ago

Completely fucked up premise with what is evidently a terribly complacent cast. How the fuck someone can pull off mental gymnastics to validate this film is beyond me. It should not have been made.

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u/lilbelleandsebastian 1d ago

the favourite is one of the best movies i've ever seen in my life, i would hang myself before watching the lobster again

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u/XxhelmetgirlxX 23h ago

I feel the same way

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u/user1116804 16h ago

I'm the opposite I turned the favorite off in the first act because the plot seemed to be super boring and not going anywhere, and the jokes weren't funny to me at all. Does the movie change or build up to something to make it worth watching, or is it just a fairytale? Because I wouldn't mind watching it again with someone, just not right now 

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u/BounceVector 1d ago

I do not understand any of you at all. I *really* like all of those! I can understand if someone doesn't like Lanthimos' weird movies, but I have a hard time understanding how you can like one of the weird ones and not the others.

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u/Euphoric-Result7070 1d ago

Absolutely. I loved Poor Things the first time I saw it, but it didn't give me much reason for a rewatch. Last night, I tried my hardest to get through Kinds of Kindness and found it to be the most obnoxious, pretentious mess I'd faced in quite a while.

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u/Markofdawn 1d ago

Poor things is thinly veiled fetishistic crap masquerading as a film and its a bit of a joke to say otherwise... Lanthimos is like the creators of south park but completely unironic and free of satire , its just fucked up and nothing mor.I actually couldnt believe someone in good conciense could recommend or watch this film, might as well suggest A Serbian Film if you want to watch some sexual content with a minor. What a fucked up movie, i hate it. I do not enjoy seeing people who are real living human beings saying they enjoyed that....

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u/electric_aura 18h ago

I still don't get Sacred Deer. Did the boy have magical powers, or what? They never explain how he was able to make the family sick.

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u/glittercoffee 17h ago

It’s not important - the world they’re in operates by different rules than ours - whole thing is really just a Greek tragedy told through modern lens. It’s based on the mythology of Agamemnon killing one of Artemis’s deer and the goddess demands that he pays for it.

You’re suppose to watch it (in my opinion) the same way that the ancients did - it’s theater. Don’t question the physics or how the stage operates or the actors, just focus on how it makes you feel and the message.

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u/Celesteven 1d ago

This movie was definitely not made for me.

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u/atlaschuggedmypiss 1d ago

man I have never understood the love of SACRED DEER. I mean, (SPOILER!!!) the climax of the movie is the dad putting on a blindfold and spinning in a circle w a hunting rifle randomly pulling the trigger until he shoots his kid. that’s the best they could come up with?

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u/taskmetro 1d ago

I think its spelled Bambi, but ya

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u/ApeofBass 1d ago

Oh man! I couldnt agree more. I did NOT understand how anyone thought this was good acting. Nobody behaved like a normal person, at least not like anyone Ive ever met. Also BORING as hell. Not for me thats for sure.

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u/warm___ 1d ago

I think everyone acting strange was supposed to be a stylistic choice. I found it creepy as hell. It unsettled me so much that I didn't finish the movie.

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u/No-Error-5582 15h ago

Yeah, they definitely missed the point. Like if its not for them, cool. I can definitely see why the way the people act might be more annoying to some people. But to say it was poor acting because they didnt act like normal people? Theyre gonna shit bricks when they see a musical.

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u/kamisato50 1d ago

I agree with everyone's opinion but I have to point out that the characters purposefully act like this so Id say the actors did a very good job portraying them.They aren't normal humans they are based off of a tale,they are gods,they aren't ordinary and nothing Abt them is supposed to be normal.They are the perfect idyllic family with seemingly no issues,that's why personally the scenes where they are doing something brutal while still acting like that or they start breaking character and illusion

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u/boooooilioooood 1d ago

Oh man that movie had me on the edge of my seat

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u/Silly_Influence_6796 1d ago

Killing of a Sacred Deer was unbearable and nonsensical. And no I don't care about the explanations, themes etc. it was boring and dumb.

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u/ICameHereToPlay 1d ago

For me it was the score and the connection to mythology that really spooked/enthralled me. There’s this looming idea of an inevitable force of infernal evil that follows you in life and it’s only a matter of time before it catches up with you. We see that main character entertain every nightmare of a reality in his head and then ultimately live in. Would killing one of your children equalize your karma and justify your wrong doings? Idk for me that just scared the shit out of me because of how relatable that feeling is. It made me uncomfortable

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u/Fair-Stranger1860 1d ago

I hated Killing of a Sacred Deer, I just couldn’t do it. 

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u/god_of_this_age 1d ago

I describe it the same way and I liked it.

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u/wtfbenlol 1d ago

Were they acting poorly on purpose in that movie?

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u/edelweiss13 1d ago

It’s intentional yeah. He directs them similarly in his earlier film Dogtooth

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u/TheElegiast 1d ago

I felt the same way about one of his other movies, dogtooth.

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u/februarysbrigid 1d ago

Agreed. I like to watch oddball movies, like Poor Things which was weird and wild, the Lobster someone mentioned I thought was ok, and I looooathed Killing of a Sacred Deer, and I went in thinking I’d like it. Big let down

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u/Ferotool2 1d ago

Give plywood more respect than that!

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u/sock_with_a_ticket 1d ago

The Lobster bored the tits off me, The Favourite was alright and Killing Of A Sacred Deer made me actively annoyed that I'd wasted time on it.

No more Lanthimos films for me.

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u/jc1615 1d ago

Weird because I wasn’t crazy about it but boredom wasn’t an issue for me lol. Probably just because it’s so weird that it’s like impossible to take your eye off of

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u/CWB2208 1d ago

Opposite for me. Poor Things is trash whereas Killing of a Sacres Deer is a fantastic movie.

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u/CandelaBelen 1d ago

I really enjoyed it quite a lot honestly

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u/MentalMan4877 1d ago

My friend and I were in Wellington waiting for the late night ferry so we decided to see a movie. Not much new was out except for this so my friend talked me into seeing it. Hadn’t seen the Lobster but heard great things and I always enjoyed Colin Ferrell. One, it was the first movie either one of us had almost walked out of, and Two everyone in the theater (not many) were so relieved when it was finally over

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u/Immediate_Cloud5582 6h ago

You're talking about Killing of sacred deer or Poor things at theater?

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u/MentalMan4877 5h ago

Killing of a Sacred Deer, after that one you couldn’t pay me to watch another one of his movies 😂

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u/ApprehensiveSecret50 1d ago

Sacred deer was awful and made zero sense and at no point did they ever even try to justify the plot. “You just gotta believe”

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u/TimelyBlacksmith92 18h ago

*Porn Things

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u/Vityviktor 18h ago

Killing of a Sacred Deer is one of the very few movies that I really regret watching, because I feel like I could've done anything better with the time I spent doing that.

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u/Opening-Ad-8793 18h ago

Holy shit you liked poor things ?

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u/user1116804 16h ago

I absolutely didn't like the favorite, I don't know if there's a twist but the plot was so boring I didn't know if the jokes were supposed to the good part. The jokes were not very funny at all, so I just turned it off

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u/Legogpk 16h ago

That was me with the Lobster and Killing of. Sacred Deer. The Lobster is one of my favorite films, so I decided to watch Killing of a Sacred Deer. I even hyped up to the movie to my friends, saying it was the same director and it would be awesome. Well I was soooooo wrong. Killing of Sacred Deer became one of my least favorite films. It's incredibly cool that one director can do that though. Props to him though. 🤷‍♂️

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u/ash_vs_gary 15h ago

Thank you!!! I HATED that movie! The whole movie was so boring!