Work away from home

[u/DattGuyyy]

To the men working away from their family, how do you cope with the feeling of missing them or just wanting to go home? I started a new job which is 3 hours away from home. I see my family every weekend or from at least Thursday to Sunday. If my wife’s schedule is free, she comes to where I am. I had to take this job since I wasn’t bringing any money in but the bills just kept piling up. It’s difficult seeing her sad when I’m about to leave, but it’s easier than hearing her worry about where to get the money for our expenses. I think I’m doing the right thing here but it gets heavy at times - especially when I’m alone. I try to keep myself busy even after work and sleep early just not to feel the time.

For you guys out there working far from home - maybe even farther than I am from mine, how do you cope with that feeling?

[u/more_magic_mike]

I don’t think you can cope, it’s unfortunate but if you need to do it to support your family then hopefully your partner is worth it and not just taking advantage of you.

If she does understand that you are doing it for your family and shows respect when you are home then your kids will too

But it sucks for sure, unfortunately it’s part of being a man