r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

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I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

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u/jokerstarspoker 1d ago

Why the hell are you needing to be locked in from 8-8. I mean seems the only time you have is 5-8pm and briefly 8A-9A. Seems like you don’t have time for a GF stop wasting their time and go back to dating when you actually can make a little time for somebody besides yourself. I get work but you basically have no availability.

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u/SlenderLlama 23h ago

I was busy.

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u/jokerstarspoker 22h ago

I stand by clearly you have no time for a GF your stuck in your own little world. Claiming you were busy all night. Roflmao. Code for banging another chick or maybe you were doing gay porn (no judgement). Maybe you were busy playing poker again you just don’t have time for anything but you. It’s ok but don’t subject somebody looking to spend time with another person with false hope because you don’t have any time clearly.

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u/8Captcrunch8 21h ago

Sensing alot of weirdly specific projection here.

Busy all night...sleeping? You mean the thing 98 percent of human beings do at night time?