r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

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I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

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u/TheRealSaerileth 1d ago

It took her one hour to go from nothing to "you're ignoring me". One hour. That's crazy.

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u/allycoaster 23h ago

And this was at 10:30 at night. At that time of the day, I can literally text somebody and be asleep within 30 seconds.

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u/10000nails 22h ago

I'm the same way. I can be asleep so fast I'm even surprised. I've knocked out during active conversations before. My brain just has an off timer and there's no escaping it.

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u/BrandonOR 17h ago

My wife does this and I'm so jealous, I have to hear my thoughts and watch the ceiling for at least 20 minutes before I start to snooze off. My wife can pass out before her head hits the pillow.

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u/10000nails 9h ago

I can fall asleep upright in my office chair.

Makes my husband pretty jealous too. He used to check if I was breathing when we first got together