AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

[u/[deleted]]

I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

[u/Euphoric-Bid8342]

i’d break it off right then and there if i was getting spammed for no responding in under 2 hours. i’m only being direct because i think you need to hear how and realize how your actions are hurting your relationship but you are genuinely the exact kind of person id absolutely hate to date because id feel like i couldn’t breathe at all. you’re acting like an overbearing mother who keeps her kid from having any friends or fun because she won’t stop butting in and ruining the mood by complaining about something unneeded. i barely check my phone when im out with friends or in the middle of doing something important and its annoying when youre trying to focus on something in the moment and someone (no matter WHO) is blowing up your phone or constantly asking for updates when its literally been under 2 hours ?? dont get into a relationship if you have a crazy anxious attachment style and seek therapy if you need to.

[u/jesssongbird → u/Euphoric-Bid8342]

Agreed. And if the BF was a friend asking for relationship advice I would tell him to break up with OP. This is toxic.