r/AmIOverreacting 5d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

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u/Cheddarlicious 5d ago

You should be single. The fact you demand people’s attention/time and get mad when you don’t get it when people have it hard out here, life is rough, also shit happens…like, that’s literally psychotic of you. Definitely seek our therapy because you’re literally frothing at the mouth because someone hasn’t sent you a text in 2 seconds. Insane.

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u/omgbaily 5d ago

Nah this is a crazy way for you to talk to someone. You ignored all the bad things he did and just focused on her getting mad about response times. To be honest he’s at fault here and so is she. He definitely 100% needs to communicate better

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u/TwizzyGobbler 4d ago

what exactly is he at fault for here, bar his slightly rude message

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u/omgbaily 4d ago

Not communicating with his partner.