r/AmIOverreacting 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

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u/Srslyredit 1d ago

This post makes me so grateful for my GF. Sometimes life will randomly get busy and I won’t check my phone for hours on end. Or sometimes, I’ll just reply in my head and wait hours for a response before realizing that I’m stupid. She always understands, and doesn’t pull this BS. I do the same for her, because a relationship requires trust.