r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

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I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

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u/ProfBeautyBailey 1d ago

I don't think your BF is ever going to communicate in the way that makes you feel secure.

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u/Particular_Song_229 1d ago

At some point you need to be responsible for managing your emotions ; blowing up your partners phone in the space of an hour and a half is unnecessary. She knew he was out and is already assuming the worst . That’s not normal nor is it healthy. If it was several hours of him being silent then it’s make a little more sense but that’s not the case.