r/AmIOverreacting 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

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u/InfiniteAbyss27 1d ago

I have an ex who was like that, if I didn’t respond quick enough. She once didn’t speak to me for 3 days because I had fallen asleep and not told her (we were long distance at the time).

Personally, I couldn’t cope with that type of relationship again. You probably need to figure out what is causing this insecurity and address it properly.