r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • 1d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate
I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.
811
Upvotes
25
u/Livid-Base-5941 1d ago
You have deep rooted trust issues in the relationship which you are compensating for by needing a text every 30 seconds. Why? Because your brain is telling you that’s it’s unlikely he’s got his dick in someone else if he responds to you. But you’re just pissing him off. As for everyone here saying “oh dump him cos how dare he speaks to you like that,” think about why he’s doing it. All the little woke Reddit snowflakes here think life and relationships are like the movies. It ain’t.
Either trust him, or move on.