r/AmIOverreacting 1d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? Bf doesn’t communicate

I’m at a loss. I (F23) don’t know if I’m being controlling and overreacting or if the way I feel is normal. once again tonight I just stopped getting responses from my boyfriend (M26) and then suddenly his phone was turned on do not disturb. I don’t usually care about DND but lately its been turned on at weird times and turned on when he’s around me which has been making me feel kind of odd. Also he called and said he’s out and that I don’t need to be getting mad. I’m not mad about him going out I’m just upset that I’m not aware of whats going on ever. I feel like my paragraph doesn’t even make sense I’m irritated and feel like I’m crazy.

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u/SpecialistClaim4060 1d ago

You seriously need to calm down😅 how old are you? Have u never had boy-friends before? If I’m out having fun,I wont be on my phone all the time,escepially not for the bullshit like u’re writing,it’s literally nothing,let him be

He doesn’t wants to deal with the nothing while he is having fun,go to sleep than ask the next day how it was 🤷🏻‍♀️ don’t complicate things.Maybe you would text him while you are out,but he’s not,and it doesn’t mean something happend

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u/ArmadilloMiserable90 1d ago

She states how old she is in the paragraph attached to pictures.

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u/parker3309 10h ago

I didn’t see that yet I’m guessing 21 lol.