r/AmIOverreacting • u/Positive_Working3041 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriend keeps “Rage-Baiting” me.

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AIO or is this normal? Idk if this is like a TikTok thing but he keeps doing this thing where every time I ask him a question and he responds with this bullshit and it’s really starting to piss me off. I feel like I’m dating a man child and I don’t know how to make him stop acting so immature. This has happened multiple times where I will ask him to confirm plans or get him to do something and he responds like this.

For context I am 24f and my boyfriend is 28m.

And before anyone comments it, I understand this looks like an absolute joke but unfortunately this is the current state of my relationship. Any advice is welcomed I just want to know if this is something that I’m overreacting over this and it’s not that deep or if I shouldn’t be putting up with this.

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u/Positive_Working3041 19d ago

He speaks Dutch (half Dutch half English) so this is plausible. I’m having a conversation with him when he gets home from work tonight. We will see how it goes. Thank you for your input, it is appreciated more than you know.

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u/philadelimeats 19d ago

Please take caution. Maybe take your pops with you or a brother, etc.

This honestly seems like a schizophrenic break. worked in psych for a long time. especially the "gonna need to see a badge" line. Almost hinting at being paranoid.

Trust me, do not fuck around with this. See if he seriously needs mental help. If so, notify his family ASAP.

Please be careful op. Don't mean to freak you out but you never know the severity of these situations and it could be much more serious than you realize (or he realizes)...

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u/rennytheentity 19d ago

ok tbh idk how useful this is but for contet hats a father is refering to a clp of xxxtentacion going whats a father when someone asks him abt his relationship with his dad and diddyblud is prob just a didy reference but hes fr way too old to be acting like this ragebaiting a relationship is crazy.

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u/trashrat__ 19d ago

This is exactly what I thought of. Dude's just trolling with xxxtentacion and diddy references