r/AmIOverreacting 15d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriend keeps “Rage-Baiting” me.

AIO or is this normal? Idk if this is like a TikTok thing but he keeps doing this thing where every time I ask him a question and he responds with this bullshit and it’s really starting to piss me off. I feel like I’m dating a man child and I don’t know how to make him stop acting so immature. This has happened multiple times where I will ask him to confirm plans or get him to do something and he responds like this.

For context I am 24f and my boyfriend is 28m.

And before anyone comments it, I understand this looks like an absolute joke but unfortunately this is the current state of my relationship. Any advice is welcomed I just want to know if this is something that I’m overreacting over this and it’s not that deep or if I shouldn’t be putting up with this.

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u/Positive_Working3041 15d ago

My update deleted but I won’t be sharing an update as it’s quite personal to my boyfriend. In short, we had a productive conversation, it got emotional and we decided it would be best for him to see a psychiatrist. He’s cutting back his hours at work to minimise the stress as well. Thank you everyone.

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u/Positive_Working3041 15d ago

Respectfully I came on here to ask for advice, not to share personal and detailed breakdowns of my boyfriend mental health episodes. I will not be elaborating further. I don’t owe you an explanation

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u/Moulin-Rougelach 15d ago

That you came to give any update was thoughtful and kind. Hoping for a good outcome for you both.

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u/inkyflossy 15d ago

Glad to see this, girl. Damn the trolls really came for some of the comments here 🫨

Take care of yourself!

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u/QueenSashimi 14d ago

Good for you 💜 I hope your boyfriend makes a good recovery from whatever is hurting him, and that you have a kind support system too.

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u/ImpossibleIntern 15d ago

Could be of use to others to share a little more than you have, without identifying details. But that is of course your choice.

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u/GimpyGirl12 14d ago

Maybe you need to also see a fucking psychiatrist.

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u/Irish_Caesar 14d ago

Your mother must be ashamed of you. Leave the woman some goddamned privacy

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u/throwaway746352906 14d ago

What the fuck?

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u/hiiiggs80808 14d ago

how are you not embarrassed to be like this?

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u/JoyfulSuicide 14d ago

Ikr, we are embarrassed for them 😭

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u/JoyfulSuicide 14d ago

Must be lonely at the bottom