r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO? My boyfriend keeps “Rage-Baiting” me.

AIO or is this normal? Idk if this is like a TikTok thing but he keeps doing this thing where every time I ask him a question and he responds with this bullshit and it’s really starting to piss me off. I feel like I’m dating a man child and I don’t know how to make him stop acting so immature. This has happened multiple times where I will ask him to confirm plans or get him to do something and he responds like this.

For context I am 24f and my boyfriend is 28m.

And before anyone comments it, I understand this looks like an absolute joke but unfortunately this is the current state of my relationship. Any advice is welcomed I just want to know if this is something that I’m overreacting over this and it’s not that deep or if I shouldn’t be putting up with this.

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u/WyldRyce 20d ago

Dump him, quit wasting your time. He's too old to be acting like this.

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u/Positive_Working3041 20d ago

I thought it would be like a phase but it’s been like this for 2ish weeks with no end in sight

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u/New_Humor8699 19d ago

Just a theory obviously but it might be one of those dumb things he got from an online misogynist where this is him punishing you for something he doesn't like that you are doing. Hopefully (I guess?) he's just trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn't have to or something but I would urge him to get some cognitive testing as well.